reluctant_squidd

joined 7 months ago
[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

I hear you and agree, but part of me wonders if that is solely because they were always nasty people, or they are actually reacting to the awful way they get treated.

They are already probably dealing with failing health, burying most of their friends, not understanding most of what is going on in the world, feeling left behind, etc.

In their shoes I’m not sure if I could be very cheerful myself. Maybe I’ll get the opportunity to find out and hopefully I’ll not be one of the ones you mention, but who knows.

Most of us are tired from all the crap of the world already, imagine 30-40 more years of that on top of the things I just mentioned.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Absolutely, which is why cooperative corporate structure appealed to me. Everyone has there same stake in it and still maintains their own separate lives. Only things that are agreed upon as shareable would be shared.

Like bulk food, equipment, etc.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago (4 children)

TL;DR: capitalism.

I’ve put some thought into this and I don’t have a good answer other than because of how society is designed to keep us from doing it now.

Evolutionarily speaking, we are designed to thrive in smaller communities. It’s only in the more recent part of humanity that we seem to have moved away from that. I mean, there were still cities a long time ago, but within them were what could be thought of as smaller communities.

I myself am of European descent, but currently live in a place where there is a thriving native community and realizing that I sometimes have envy of some of their ways of life is what got me thinking.

For instance, in western society becoming elderly is almost seen as a problem, like a burden that needs to be “dealt” with. For them it is a station of respect and reverence. If an Elder walks down the street, they are taught to show respect and pay heed to their wisdom and guidance. If the rest of us are lucky, we can get a seniors discount at select stores by declaring they we are among the needy.

I’ve even went as far as researching communal living, intentional communities and cooperative housing, but I keep chickening out when it comes time to pull anything into action.

The idea of finding 4-6 like-minded families to share resources with and use our individual talents and skills to help each other really appeals to me. It makes sense to build resilience against harder times.

But to answer your question, smaller communities helping each other is against the capitalist ideal and is/will be thwarted at any scale by corporations and corporate influenced governments alike at every turn. So I guess that’s the most likely reason.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 40 points 3 days ago

This reads like an obvious ploy to soften the idea to his base. They hate Obama too, probably because Trump does.

What other opponent would ire them more? Also, if someone like Obama was on-board, it would be more of a challenge to the rule against it from both sides. Democrats rally behind Obama, Voting machine hackers behind Trump.

Is like a pretext to calling Obama a chicken for not doing it down the road.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago

That certainly sounds like it. There is basically just a big ole list of indicators of having it and if you tick enough boxes, then welcome aboard.

On the bright side. I’ve also noticed that other neuro-divergent people seem to be my favourite to hang around with. Something about being halfway through describing a thought and the other person already gets it makes me happy.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I’m sorry you are going through that.

I didn’t think the meds for adhd were addictive to people who have it?

My limited understanding is that whereas they would make a non-divergent person “high”, they make me more calm, collected and able to sort my thoughts. Just like Caffine and sugar often makes me sleepy. It’s kinda opposite.

My Dr. Told me that if I had ADHD, I would know pretty quickly when I took my first, very small, dose because if I didn’t have the condition, I would feel like I suddenly had too much energy, or like my body was vibrating.

The only thing I noticed first was that I could recall what I had to do later that day, which would not be the case otherwise.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And the news floats gently into the minds of the weary, surprising no one.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 days ago (4 children)

A someone who became middle aged with it (ADHD), not knowing what it really was or how it was affecting me, it is worth the effort.

They didn’t really prepare me for how much being medicated would change my life. Not that it cures everything, but I had to deal with a profound sense of loss for a few weeks after getting setup.

I found it really hard when I started to remember all of the missed opportunities and experiences that this condition had taken from me over the years. If ADHD is the cause or a factor, she will thank you later.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago

Probably just a comment to placate his base while behind the scenes it’s daddy Putin’s orders as usual.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago

It’s like the more backwards, upside down and wrong it seems, the more serious he actually is.

Especially “covefefe”. Never forget!

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 28 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What ever happened to people just minding their own business?

Seriously, just help when you can and but out otherwise. EASY peasy recipe for a better life.

It’s almost like “Ignorance is bliss” got mixed into “intolerance is better” somewhere along the way.

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