Yeah I fucked up communicating.
I do take my socks off because otherwise my husband would be extremely displeased with me. I don't understand why he wants them off because it's not like I'm tracking anything into bed.
I haven't worn a real bra in years but even the bra-like garments I wear now are less about freeing and more about stopping the rage lol. I think the issue is the band, just like a waist band. The socks I wear are not tight in a small section, they apply rather even pressure which I enjoy!