The title itself is provably wrong. Take the Matrix spec / protocol, install Synapse (written in Python) and watch your 16GB ram, 4 cors shit itself live under 0 load; or run tuwunel (written in Rust) and watch it using 100MB of RAM and a single core while handling a hundred users (Dendrite written in go was also great but it's incomplete). Same for some Mastodon implementations, even Elixir wasn't great and I was disappointed.
Now if you are building some ETL or a thin API wrapper, where the bottleneck is somewhere else like a DB or another API, then yes, don't bother, Python would do.