Attraction can change as you learn more about a person. There's plenty of people on tinder who looked hot in their pictures but their bio then went on to turn me off.

[–] OurToothbrush@lemmy.ml -1 points 11 months ago

So you were never attracted to those people?

[–] zarathustrad@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Do you consider yourself attracted to AI, cartoons, and or wax figures? Or do withhold judgment until you find out if they are human?

[–] OurToothbrush@lemmy.ml -1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

So in this metaphor trans people are AI, cartoons, and wax figures, and cis people are human?

Or, on a less confrontational tact, do you only experience attraction once you've confirmed that the person is cis? How does that work, do you ask for medical records before having an initial impression of people?