Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper.

Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right

Edit: clarification

What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken.