Mine was my wife. I asked her to move out, took out a home equity line of credit for a down payment on a condo she chose in the bordering city that she resented that we didn't live in anymore because her family is there whereas I needed public transit and generally to not have to drive every single place, among other advantages to a major city. We've maintain a cordial relationship, but she still thinks I was asking too much of her to change just a bit to accommodate my needs she had been ignoring for 15+ years because I heavily masked and never pushed back because i thought I was just bad at being human.