You’ve completely not understood that order of operations is an arbitrary convention
No, you've completely not understood that they are universal rules of Maths
How did you decide to expand the definition of multiplication before evaluating the addition? Convention
The definition of Multiplication as being repeated addition

You can’t write 2 + 2 ÷ 2 like this
Yes you can
so how are you gonna decide whether to decide to divide or add first?
The rules of Maths, which says Division must be before Addition