the issue is porn rewires your brain and sooner or later after enough consumption you can only derive pleasure from looking at a screen. it doesn't matter whether it's "ethically sourced" - while that is a step forward we still face porn addiction at large and don't educate on this matter. it leads to the spread of misogyny, wrong expectations and erectyle dysfunction among men.
i'm probably just biased but as a single western woman i can tell ya that some men have severe "coomerbrain" and don't know how to approach women.
masturbation is fine and healthy tho :3 use your imagination :3