the appeal she lost was that the tats and piercings make it abundantly clear she's over 18, and college attendance shows she's not going to be easy to manipulate and take advantage of. you know. because she's an educated adult. that's the big turn off. trust me. that's ALWAYS the turn off. this guy would say all sorts of nasty stuff about her body if the average 14 year old had tats and piecings.