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Why do people have issues with OnlyFans Models and Porn Stars. (sopuli.xyz)
submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it's forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?

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[–] 0 points 6 months ago (9 children)

The escorts I've spoken with enjoy the work itself

Like I said, I'm sure there are people who enjoy this, but the system is still exploitative and harmful.

What you're saying about the horrors of pornography and prostitution apply to ALL people that need to work for a living ...

Yes. In an ideal world, people won't have to do any dangerous or difficult jobs. But for now, we can't start with the worst offenders.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    I think there are no worst offenders here, all labor is valid as in all labor is exploitative in a capitalist system

    Dignity is very relative here, I think you can be a sex worker and keep your dignity

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  • [–] -2 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    I think there are no worst offenders here, all labor is valid as in all labor is exploitative in a capitalist system

    There is no difference in work quality between painting and coal mining? Teaching children and soldering diodes? Really?

    I think you can be a sex worker and keep your dignity

    Again, I'm not talking about the exceptions here. Having to sell yourself for money is a horrible fate to most, to the extent that we make laws against that. You can think of this the same way.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    I've met more people who are proud sex workers then I have people who are proud fast food employees.

    I think that perhaps you are letting your disgust for a person's work color how you feel about the person. Do you feel the same about athletes and actors? They also "sell their bodies".

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    As I said above, the people being forced to sell their dignity are the victims, and need help and rehabilitation. My hatred and disgust are reserved exclusively for those who exploit them, and the economic and social system which enables such behaviour.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago

    Having to sell yourself for money is what most people do every day, bruh. Every job I've ever had has been a major detriment to my physical and/or mental health, and was accepted only under threat of homelessness and starvation.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Yes. In an ideal world, people won’t have to do any dangerous or difficult jobs. But for now, we can’t start with the worst offenders.

    do you believe that all sex work is dangerous or difficult?

    do you believe that easy & safe but compulsory work as a means to get obtain food and shelter is an ideal world?

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  • [–] -1 points 6 months ago

    do you believe that all sex work is dangerous or difficult?

    Emotional toll aside, putting yourself at the mercy of a stronger person who has already shown that he does not care about right and wrong, day after day, is very much dangerous.

    do you believe that easy & safe but compulsory work as a means to get obtain food and shelter is an ideal world?

    People do enjoy work when it is pleasant and interesting. Should it be compulsory? I don't know. Rich people who don't have to do any work often lose touch with the world. So perhaps even in that ideal world where we have amazing robots that can do anything, we should have people do a little bit of some work of their choice.

    But all this is just speculation. For now, the focus should be on freeing people from the most dangerous and difficult jobs.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    No, you misunderstand: ALL labor under capitalism is exploitative. 'Dangerous' and 'difficult' has nothing to do with it. The system is set up so that your labor must be used for the benefit of someone else in order to obtain the bare necessities of survival, and you don't get the full value of your labor. It doesn't matter if that's working in an office doing spreadsheets all day, or as a sex work; ALL labor is exploited under capitalism.

    Work is work; sex workers are workers.

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