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Some helpful links:
- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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waoow, im incredibly scared of any type of surgery, even dental lol
how it its? how the pain right after surgery, yeah bumped with a lot strong pain meds but still how its ? but what it will be by stopping pain meds?
you are hero! that complex and hard surgery, the price?(im think is most painful than surgery itself)
im planning just getting orchi kheh, some surgeouns do it in russia but its super hard to get info since they cencor themselfes for security reasons(look at history of one girl where her mom with ultrafar-right wing worse than govr itself stopped the surgery(idk was it bottom or not but it was in Tolyati))
but im know 3 ffs surgeouns inside russia (bruh any which know how to work with bone countour is ok, but some of them are just can be transphobic) and Anna Sluzkaya in Yerevan ffs isnt super expensive because private healthcare here is always cheap kheh like in most post-socialist country (im dont planning getting it but blah im know 3 ffs surgeouns but 0 orchi ones),
idk maybe possible do orchi through corrupt a local doctor in my small city somehow, like its minimaly invasive surgery, like why trans organizations centered in t*legram and only through it possible to get friendly doctors lol
the surgeries like orchi still do inside russia like moscow for example
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellll, one surgeoun even didnt removed the mentions of transgenders, holy, like some other is more neutral but still mentions transness on their(updated) site like reason for feminization-masculinization, along "women who want be more feminine" or reverse
and it have vajajaplasty listed hell