I can at least think of a few counterexamples:
- Cats live longer than dogs.
- Small stars live longer than large stars (by dramatic amounts).
- Black holes larger than the ~10^10 kg mark shown here live a lot longer than any other object with the same mass. A hypothetical moon mass black hole can most likely outlive every single star in the universe.
- Protons are smaller than anything in this chart yet are believed to decay over an extremely long time scale (>10^34 years).
- Even smaller particles like electrons likely live forever.