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It's not even funny anymore. I wish I was joking, but it happened again! I forget that it gets cold outside at night and that my body just isn't as cold-resistant anymore and I still try to go outside ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Anyway, I have this outfit. I swear to god, my jorts shrank and now they're super tight and it's kinda uncomfortable. Also the top is a bit small, also tight and not very comfortable either...I just think this isn't a good match. It's tight and tight, which goes against the tight and loose rule.

My main problem with this outfit is that the jorts sit directly on my waist (I can't get them any lower, they're just too tight ๐Ÿ˜ญ) and they cover it. (In my mind) my waist is like the main thing about my figure, so without it, I just look...fat? Masculine? In my eyes at least. If that makes sense...

I do like the off-shoulder top tho. It hides the broadness surprisingly well...it's just not very comfortable. And also, I just have to keep readjusting it, which isn't very practical.

I just don't think I did very well with this outfit...
What I think would improve this look could be a pair of low-waist jorts. These could probably expose more of my waist and make my figure more feminine? Does that makes sense?

I'm probably talking crazy. I still have so much to learn. I'd appreciate any feedback. Thank you very much ๐Ÿ’œ

Now if you'll excuse me, I need to tend to my bf, as always ๐Ÿ˜†. I'll definitely remember to write a spoilered comment with that later. Yep. Definitely. My memory is good, right?

I love you, kind and pretty people in my phone. Thanks for always being here for me โ™ฅ๏ธ

Edit:

NSFWMy bf was brushing his teeth in the bathroom. I took a quick sip of water to lubricate my mouth... ๐Ÿ˜†
When he came back, I gave him just the lewdest look. Then I went down on him.

At first, just gently sucking and swirling my tongue around his head...and then I really went for it ๐Ÿ˜‚
I believe that enthusiasm is what makes a blowjob amazing. And I sure was enthusiastic.
I actually really like sucking cock. Not only does my bf praise me for giving him the best oral sex of all his girlfriends (he's been with 3 cis women before me), but it feels really good for me too.

And he was sure to return the favor...
He slid the chair I was sitting on up against the wall. Then he made me turn around on it and get on my knees...
And then he quite literally fucked me senseless ๐Ÿคญ
He was super rough in the best way imaginable. I couldn't move, I was on my knees, being pushed against a chair which was being pushed against the wall. All I could do was take it and lewdly moan. And moan lewdly I did...
It was heaven. My mind went blank from the pleasure, trying and failing to keep up with the brutal pounding. They weren't really moans anymore, just sounds I made and his sweet, dirty whispers in my ear. He knows how to treat me well ๐Ÿฅฐ

Then he stopped thrusting and simply stepped forward, pushing me against the chair even more, completely buried inside of me. God I almost fainted...
And then he pulled out. I wanted to protest, to beg for more, but my brain was completely fried lol. He got on the bed, laying on his back. It took me a second to be able to form thoughts again, but I soon got the message.

I slowly climbed on top of him, straddling him. Gently leading his tip to where it belongs...
And let my weight sink his dick completely inside of me ๐Ÿคญ
I find cowgirl very intimate. We can look at each other, he can see my boobs bouncing and we can hold hands while I shake and gyrate my hips on top of him.

I love it and he enjoys it a lot. He always calls me "his queen on her throne" which always makes me feel hot all over. He loves it when I ride him. I love it too, when he looks me in the eyes and massages my breasts...it's so unbelievably HOT โค๏ธ.

I actually surprised myself today. It's injection day, so I didn't think I'd perform very well due to my sore thigh...I couldn't have been more wrong ๐Ÿ˜†
I lovingly rode him, then leaned down to kiss him and also gave him a hickey on his neck ๐Ÿ˜†. Then he exploded, while still inside me of course. I wouldn't have it any other way. I'll never stop trying to have his kids...

I didn't get off right away. I enjoy straddling him, just sitting with him inside of me. I love it, actually.
So, still interconnected, we kissed some more, touched each other's bodies...just enjoyed the nice moment. We talked a bit afterwards, relaxed. And then, when my weight was too much, I got off of him.

I fucking LOVE this man. I NEED him in my life, I need him by my side and inside me...
And after writing this, I need another round ๐Ÿ˜‚

Sorry for the hornyposting, but I love loving this man and enjoy every second of it โ™ฅ๏ธ

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[โ€“] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

the poofy sleeves and over the shoulder part give the vibe of a loose top on your arms/shoulders while being snug on your torso in a flattering way. also those shorts accentuate your hips so they go well with the narrow part of your top

Awww, thank you ๐Ÿฅบ

its giving the feminine hourglass shape overall

I'm not an hourglass tho ๐Ÿ˜ญ
My waist is just a bit slim, cause I don't eat enough, and it's very, very subtle. This outfit in particular completely hides my waist, which makes me reconsider the fit...

This is what I mean

These are old, but I don't think it matters in this case. I think you get it.

It just makes me look...fat? Makes my stomach look way bigger ๐Ÿ˜ญ
At least the red top shows more skin and actually makes me look skinny...
This is kinda nice but I'd like to show more of my waist...

Thank you anyway โค๏ธ
You're way too kind

[โ€“] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm not an hourglass tho ๐Ÿ˜ญ

spoken by the girl who posted this less than 2 weeks ago
you most definitely are :3

But it's an illusion ๐Ÿ˜ญ
It's the angle and my back being arched, I swear. And besides, I'm sitting ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Shoulders are way too broad. I'm unfortunately an upside-down triangle, which makes me dysphoric ๐Ÿ˜”