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[–] 89 points 1 day ago (75 children)

Not directly related to the post, but what is it with people getting all pissy when they find out you're vegetarian/vegan? More than once I've had someone act like I told them I punch babies for fun when they find out I don't eat meat. I don't bring it up unprompted, it's always in relation to a dietary concern. For example, I ordered a veggie dish at a restaurant, and they brought me the meat equivalent. I politely let the server know I ordered something else (apologetically I might add, because I feel like I'm being difficult to a service worker even though it's about a dietary restriction), and she acted like I was out of line. Rolling eyes, huffy, and asked me if I wanted her to take it back (um, obviously?).

This has happened to me or friends in various social settings, and I just don't get it. I even attended a cookout once where the host got mad at me for not eating his burgers. After I responded to the dietary restriction email. And brought my own dish. People act like you're being a bitch for not eating meat! I've never once pushed my diet on anyone or brought it up out of necessary contexts, but people still talk behind my back like I'm being dramatic for not eating things I don't want to.

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  • [–] [S] 59 points 1 day ago (35 children)

    The BBC has a good article on this concept

    The tension that results can make us feel stressed, irritated, and unhappy. But instead of resolving it by changing our beliefs or behaviour, it’s quite normal to blame these feelings on something else entirely – all without realising we’re doing it

    In the case of eating meat, Rothgerber suggests we have a number of strategies – around 15 – which allow us to avoid facing up to the meat paradox. These include pretending that meat has no link to animals, imagining that we eat less of it than we really do, wilful ignorance about how it’s produced

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    Unfortunately, most of these are derailed by the presence of vegans.

    According to Rothgerber, people tend not to think of meat eating as an ideology. The dominance of meat eating around the world helps the omnivores among us to avoid the idea that it’s a choice – it’s just what everyone else is doing. But when a vegan turns up at a dinner party, suddenly we’re bumped out of the comfortable “mainstream diet” category and into the unsettling “meat-eating” category. By their mere existence, vegans force people to confront their cognitive dissonance. And this makes people angry.

    https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20200203-the-hidden-biases-that-drive-anti-vegan-hatred

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  • [+] -23 points 1 day ago (31 children)

    ...or in some cases it's much simpler: some of us have conditions that make it impossible for us to survive or to thrive on a vegan diet and we're sick unto death of vegoons pushing Evangelical Veganism and acting like we don't exist or we're making it up to justify the moral failing of eating meat. And there's the constant push to normalize veganism, which just expands the number of places I can't eat and/or people I can't eat with.

    If that type of vegan didn't exist I wouldn't immediately start side-eying vegans until I find out of they're safe or not.

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  • [–] 8 points 20 hours ago* (2 children)

    What do you mean “can’t eat at”?

    Do you have an allergic reaction when you consume non-meat foods?

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