I mean you don't deserve it, regardless of how many people your country has instilled that exact sentiment in around the world, it's a clear mistake to conflate the ruled with their rulers.

That said, the vast majority of USAmericans didn't care until it started happening around them, and many still bury their heads and won't step beyond the most passive possible resistance (voting for a new ruler or set thereof, leaving the fundamental issues unaddressed; largely because of how closely they relate to the concentrations of power that rulers both require and personally benefit from; and the cycle continues). This isn't unique to the US, similar is well documented during worse circumstances in Germany for example (Meet the Germans is a good book on the topic), but I can understand why some people arrive at being frustrated with you en masse.