Huh. It sounds as if maybe you missed a basic building block as a child.
Once you're missing a foundational concept, everything after that is difficult. It's sadly not uncommon - maybe you were ill that week, or you had a teacher that couldn't explain in a way that worked for you, etc.
My work is in maths and stats, my husband is a lawyer, so when he did an introductory finance course a few years ago, I tried to help him understand some formulas that involved percentages. It was an unmitigated disaster. So I called my mom (a retired math teacher) and she started by drawing a circle and saying this is a pie, we cut it into slices, etc. like you would for a young child. At first I was horrified, but she kept building on it, checking he understood at each point, until they reached a point where he wasn't going, "yes, yes, OK". She explained that piece to him and something clicked. Problem solved.
Anyway, that was a long anecdote to tell you, you probably just need to find a good maths teacher who is willing to spend a couple of hours with you building up, until you find that gap. I could ask my mom if you like? She's genuinely a really good teacher.
Edit to add: Alternatively, go through the Khan Institute lessons. Skim them until he starts doing something that isn't obvious. Then go back and watch the previous lesson.