I appreciate the perspective :)

I actually have hats lol. Various symbols and iterations of the usual flags. Which isn't the main point of your comment, but you're absolutely correct about how even very subtle signs of support can be a positive experience. For everyone, since I very much enjoy the responses when someone in need of some public support says something about it. The sense of community can be thin on the ground, but it's never stronger than when two strangers can find mutual respect.

I think I might well need to piddle around with the settings on my accounts on lemmy at the very least.