I often don't believe people when they say "both sides bad" so whatever, it doesn't matter. Besides the point.

Hell, even the "lesser-evil" argument is just a reframing against consequentialism. If you aren't a consequentialist you aren't a person worth debating on the topic of voting for the lesser evil. So we don't need to talk.

And even just on an emotional level: You aren't dragging me and my friends and family into hell and then getting me to help you in revolutionary action.