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Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because β€œthat’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I won't rape, torture, and murder vulnerable individuals. Call me radical but if I can be happy, healthy, and enjoy life without doing those things to animals, I'm not going to fucking do those things to animals.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

Communism is good, necessary, and achievable.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Everyone deserves health care. And a decent place to live. Even people without jobs!

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[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

People should be able to transfer their vote of their first preference didn't win. Sorry democrats, being forced to vote for you isnt democracy.

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[–] BranBucket@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Neil Postman was right.

Our educational models and methods are changing for the worse.

TV and the internet are terrible mediums for public or political discourse and this has exacerbated many of our existing issues.

Our culture has become more shallow and has started to lack something profound because of how we utilize technology for education, business, and entertainment.

Things will not improve until we change our relationship with these technologies.

EDIT: several words.

[–] dosse91@lemmy.trippy.pizza 71 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I will not install your shitty app

[–] cageythree@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 days ago (4 children)

The worst are the sites that just redirect you to the play/app store when visiting on mobile.
I'm surely NOT installing your fucking app after you give me a bad experience (by not showing me the content I've received a link to) while I'm a "guest visitor" to your site.

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[–] mub@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 days ago (11 children)

ALL information, except what you can hold in your brain, should be 100% public, with no limits on use.

An unimaginable concept right now, but I think it is essential if we hope to ever trust each other and achieve global peace.

[–] crimsonpoodle@pawb.social 10 points 3 days ago

I promise my journal really isn’t that interesting

[–] B0rax@feddit.org 4 points 2 days ago

There is no need for you to know my browsing history or my medical history.

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[–] peacefulpixel@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

there is literally no possible usecase for Generative AI, it is modern day snake oil. nothing could possibly justify adding yet another "technology" to the list of existing tech that is already scorching our earth and enslaving people. it was created by the CIA to bolster the surveillance state and i have considerably less respect for someone when i find out that they use it for any reason at all.

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[–] 1hitsong@lemmy.ml 50 points 3 days ago (9 children)

Using AI is amoral and I will never use it. As a programmer, every day it feels like I'm increasingly the minority.

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[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (6 children)

People who believe in any religion are the same as dormant terrorist cells. One can have perfectly formal relationships with them on a daily basis, but given the right conditions, they become a huge, possibly lethal, risk.

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[–] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

I want to share my photos of our trip with you, but I don't want you to upload them to Google, or apple, or amazon, or meta, or any social media.

If it's a pic of you, fine, do whatever you want. But please don't take my whole album and store it in your google photos.

Edit: to maybe disambiguate, I go on a trip with someone else, we both take photos/videos using our own devices, and then afterwards we are exchanging what we took. Not like, me sharing photos with someone who didn't even go on the trip.

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Just in response to your annoyance, I have found women ive been around tend to have more of a "fuck other people and the climate" attitude than most of the guys (its usually not that abrasive, just more of a "why wouldn't I water my grass? We have the water" attitude). Especially if there's kids, they dont care about anything else (that's just biology I guess). Please dont take this as sexist, it is just something ive observed.

I get very annoyed with people wasting unnessesarily and using amazon.

[–] TiberiusDreadnought@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm curious as to where you live (city, suburb, etc) and what the age group of the people are

The most average. Middle america, 30s to 50s age.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

my favorite is the 'love to travel' types. point out that their trips to antarctic are toxic for the environment there and they lose it on you. because cute pics with penguins are worth it!

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[–] finder@sopuli.xyz 37 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Dating apps are inherently dehumanizing

[–] Archr@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Most of them are also owned by a single company. Match Group inc. Some of the more notable ones are:

  • Her
  • Hinge
  • Match.com
  • OkCupid
  • Plenty of Fish
  • Tinder

As well as most of the _ People Meet apps. Ie:

  • Black people meet
  • Democratic people meet
  • Republican people meet
  • Latino people meet
  • etc

So it is no coincidence that these apps suck.

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group

[–] TrippinMallard@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 days ago

They're also profit-incentivized to keep people single and on their platform for as long as possible.

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[–] Bronzor@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

Religious people are one the biggest reasons as to why we are where we are today. Anyone that tries to "respect" these delusions are also culpable. It's the best invention to sedate the masses in their cage since sliced manna.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 0 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I bet you cannot even define religion.

[–] Bronzor@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

"Existential belief/claim in delusion with no evidence or basis in reality; A tool for the rich to exploit and sedate the masses." That's what I hope to change the definition to when people wake up. Obviously since definitions are descriptive and not prescriptive that isn't what it is now. "An organized supernatural belief in a god/gods in regard to the creation of the universe." Is what I would assume more fits how people use the word today. Even then I feel that excludes delusions such as Buddhism or individual 'spiritual' delusions.

Skip to your proselytizing, what delusion are you Pascal's wagering your life on?

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[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Suits are weird, they feel old and out dated, like cosplaying a 20th century business boy in grandpa's pajamas. Multiple layered long sleeve shirt, jacket, and trousers doesn't make sense for the majority of weather in most cities or even more if you're inside temp controlled buildings more often. In the winter you want something heavier like denim or fleece lined or water resistant, and in the summer you want breathable fabric, wicking, single layer, shorts, etc. Overcoats don't need backup jackets, and some of the people who did wear it like a uniform last century weren't people you'd want to emulate.

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[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 81 points 4 days ago (3 children)

β€œthat’s just how I’ve always done it” is the worst when it's used as an excuse to avoid putting effort into personal growth

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[–] brynden_rivers_esq@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago (5 children)

The Sound of Music is not a Christmas movie.

My wife and her family and a whole bunch of Canadians all think it is and I am so flummoxed by it.

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[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

LED headlights can fuck right off, and if you defend them then you are either an asshole or a dumbass who couldn't think about it for twenty seconds and see the impact.

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

In Homestuck, there's a hill that if you die on it you wake up as a demigod

So yeah, I think that's the one for me

[–] cyberfae@piefed.social 14 points 3 days ago (3 children)

To secure your stuff. Hacking and social engineering are both easier than you think and identity theft is devastating. I know most people here already know that, but having worked in tech support, it's unbelievably common to skip even the basics, not to mention my grandparents who think I'm just paranoid.

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[–] webdoodle@lemmy.ml 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I ditched my smartphone over 5 years ago, and will NEVER go back. In fact, I don't have a phone of any kind. They are surveillance/psyop devices, and they are turning people into biological robots. The scifi show Dollhouse is basically where this is all heading.

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[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Taking a car for a 3km distance is unconscionable when walking or cycling are valid options.

Driving less than the speed limit will not kill you.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

What if I'm taking my car to the car wash?

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