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[–] Airfried@piefed.social 157 points 3 weeks ago (33 children)

Kinda dumb for rich people to brag about education when education is directly tied to wealth.

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[–] cRazi_man 113 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

It's a flex. In a society that fools itself into thinking it is a meritocracy, people who buy privilege still think that means they are intrinsically worthy and amazing. Scholarship is thought to portray that the individual is so intelligent (or good at sports) that the university is ready to give up thousands in income to have that candidate.

Scholarships are not meant for the filthy peasants who need them, that would be like giving feebies to the undeserving freeloaders. Instead it should be given to those gifted and capable individuals who could afford an expensive private education.

[–] tburkhol@slrpnk.net 41 points 3 weeks ago

Those universities are gambling thousands of current-revenue tuition dollars on millions of future-revenue philanthropy. The odds are good on a J-Lo level prospect.

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[–] Thebeardedsinglemalt@lemmy.world 65 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Anyone remember that whole "athletic scholarship" scandal from a few years back, then Doctor Dre was bragging about his daughter getting into USC on her own...until someone pointed out he just donated millions of dollars to the school....

[–] Sergio@piefed.social 13 points 3 weeks ago

that whole “athletic scholarship” scandal from a few years back

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varsity_Blues_scandal#Fabrication_of_sports_credentials

Athletic scholarships are legitimate. The scandal was that someone was bribing coaches to falsely identify athletic recruits.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 51 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm sorry, but you should be fucking ashamed to take a handout when you're a goddamned multimillionaire, music star, and movie star. Not a millionaire once and just barely (if taxes don't go up and you don't have a medical emergency), but many millions of dollars. Fucking pathetic.

I'd respect her more if her kids got into school because she paid for two new libraries. At least then someone would benefit.

[–] NostraDavid@programming.dev 11 points 3 weeks ago

We should be ashamed for giving Lopez the light of day on this site - Shit like this is how Reddit got shittier. I survived over 17 years on that gods-forsaken website and have seen its slow decline. Posts like these were a part of it.

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[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 41 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Free and equal access to education should be a basic right and cornerstone of every society.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, but 'Murica isn't a civilised country

[–] Shindo66@lemmy.world 37 points 3 weeks ago

"Mom, seriously, it was a post about us going to college. Did you have to do a model pose and have your belly sticking out."

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 35 points 3 weeks ago

“Resist”

Pays Musk for Blue Checkmark

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 33 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I would ask why they would even apply? Have you no honor; you are stinking rich, there is no possible situation where you would need the scholarship...so why even apply.

The only way that this works in my head is if these are the initial recipients of a new perpetual scholarship from the "Lopez foundation" or similar. Thus paying it forward for generations; rather than just a rich person pissing contest saying look my kids with the best tutors in the world beat out everyone else for another scholarship.

[–] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

When I went to college one of the forms I filled out applied me to a whole bunch of scholarships. Some I very much wasn't qualified for. I assume they had a better high school counselor than I did and did something similar. Your last point is generally how non means tested scholarships work.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

When I did the dance, my counselor had enough scholarships and grants to pay my ride... Second month of classes my financials went tits up and for my field trip to the offices we found out the two big ones had an overlap issue and please sign here for student loans. Fuck the system.

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[–] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 33 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (8 children)

Nope. Scholarships are awards based on academic performance. Bursaries are needs-based funding without a performance requirement.

If you want to change that, you have to change the system of ear-marked private donations. Most scholarships are set up by wealthy private donors with very specific requirements for the student to meet.

[–] s1ndr0m3@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Public universities used to be tuition free. The government funded universities. Now it just underwrites student loans. The wealthy private donors prefer the current system because their donations give them wage slaves. They also get the added benefit of having their name on a university building.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 14 points 3 weeks ago

In a sane country education is not only free, but students are provided with a small basic stipend from the government with the option of very favorable loans if needed.

Scholarships are awards based on academic performance.

How do you figure? My department has scholarships tied to a whole lot of criteria. Many are purely need based.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 19 points 3 weeks ago

The J-Lo Scholarship of Excellence.

Criteria: Be J-Los kids. Go to college.

[–] rustydrd@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

In academia, scholarships are often treated like academic awards, and academics will often list them in the same section on their CVs.

[–] 4am@lemmy.zip 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

That’s because they are awarded based on academic performance, not by financial need, for anyone else wondering. Honoring academic performance is the whole point of them.

The fact that the world’s initial reaction is “they don’t deserve it because they don’t need the money” is more of an indictment of the cost of higher education than it is of how scholarships are awarded.

Also, they have “scholarships” based on financial need, they are called Bursaries.

[–] Phil_in_here@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 weeks ago

I wouldn't say honour is the whole point. I think its a way to ensure young people are able to afford the opportunity, and to convince talented students to attend that particular school.

But, yeah, they're for academic achievement, not academic achievement _and_having poor parents.

Better to fight for free education than against young people getting awarded for doing well in school.

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[–] Avicenna@programming.dev 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is there an objective way to measure how much just the fact that they are J.Lo's kids affected this result? I am not talking about having more opportunities and better education because they are wealthy. Curious about just the raw power of the name itself. Back when I was in uni years, I have seen many instances of extremely high quality candidates getting rejections from five such applications that it made me think for "normal" people, even after you satisfy certain requirements, chance is still a big factor.

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago

At places like Princeton, Harvard, or USC, a big chunk of what most people are paying for is access to a bunch of young rich kids while they are intoxicated and emotionally open.

You can make really strong bonds with people in college, and being able to promote that children of prominent rich people attend your college is a value-add for the university far beyond the discounted tuition.

So this doesn't give me any particular clue about the intelligence or diligence of these kids.

It would be hilarious if they were all community colleges that accept all applicants though. 😆

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[–] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Rich people get richer while the poor stay poor. Yes they do, yes they do.

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[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Im wondering if she's paying anything for her teens to go at all or she plans for them to figure it out or something.

[–] mkwt@lemmy.world 40 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think the reality is that these admissions and scholarship committees were well aware these were the Lopez offspring. And I imagine they're counting on getting more money back in future donations and from extra buzz and interest generated if these celebrities actually matriculate.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 13 points 3 weeks ago

Exactly, the colleges were competing to get those kids. Maybe J-Lo shows up to events, hit her up for fund-raising, etc., then those Nepo-Babies go on to have lucrative Hollywood careers, and they can cut checks on the regular.

[–] lath@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Hey, she's Jenny, Jenny from the block. She used to have a little, now she has a lot. No matter where she goes, she knows where she came from.

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[–] Crozekiel@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Why does it look like someone photoshopped in a picture of J Lo's face?

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[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 weeks ago
[–] cockmushroom@reddthat.com 9 points 3 weeks ago

If they did that the rich kid would whine until there were no scholarships anymore, Means testing is generally a bad idea because, for one thing, it usually costs more to regulate than would've been spent to keep giving out freely.

[–] brownsugga@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

time to support my sons- better make sure everybody knows i still have abs

[–] nullspace@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

The kids probably worked hard and deserve it so no shade on them. Though, it is kind of like hearing a "follow your dreams" success story about a person who was able to do so due to the support of their rich parents.

[–] barnaclebutt@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Mom, put your belly away...

It's mixed here. Awards and scholarships are important for other applications. Her kids should be proud of their academic accomplishments - they can't choose their mother. That said, hopefully they turn down the funds so another candidate can be funded with it next year.

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[–] GhostFace@lemmy.today 5 points 3 weeks ago

Even if she didn't bribe anyone or throw her weight around just being related to her still influences it a lot.

But at least she's supportive. The amount of parents that think their kids can make it on their own is stupid and it's just not right. Being smart and getting good scores isn't enough on its own.

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