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[–] 63 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I got [surname].de over twenty years ago and I am so happy about that. Google can gargle my balls, I run postfix, rspamd, dovecot and roundcube.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    I did too. I feel smug when I'm asked for my email.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I have firstname@lastname.countrycode and occasionally I get people that it breaks their brain that it's not @gmail or something and they insist its wrong or won't work.

    Funny but also mildy annoying at times.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    It's even worse when some idiot dev decides what an email should look like and doesn't properly implement RFC822 (or whichever one specifies all the random bits of a valid email address).

    The current recommendation is to check for an @ symbol. It's pretty much the only concrete rule.
    If an email address has to exist, the only way is to send it an email and have the user click a link.

    https://beesbuzz.biz/code/439-Falsehoods-programmers-believe-about-email

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago*

    I was too late for that, unfortunately and got . which also some people don't comprehend.
    Although it's the capitol and there are sites from public services which use that TLD as well.

    What genuinely pisses me off: Prior to that I got .name, and there are sites, which refuse to accept it as a valid TLD when I try to register with them.

    Edit: I got <lastname[with umlauts]>., tho as this was available, but those don't work that well. Or didn't, when I last checked.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago*

    I have a complicated surname, so when people ask for my email I just show them my ID and say "firstname@lastname.de" and they can type it in, reading it off the card.

    It's made my life so easy!

    I also kept all of my spam mails of the last twenty years and trained rspamd with it. It's got a 99.9% success rate. I'd even argue it works better than some corporate mail providers (what also helps is that I provide the mail service for friends & family as well and we are all collectively training the database).

    It was a pain to setup initially, but I don't want to miss it.

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    [–] 18 points 1 month ago (21 children)

    I've been thinking about registrating my own domain ( again) but I can't settle or lack imagination for an easy recognisable name format for us. Anyone ideas?

    Also there's a connection to selfhosted here, but I need to delve a bit deeper maybe.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Sorry, buttplug.io is already taken so I don’t have any more ideas.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    buttplug42069.xxx however is wide open

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    I made mine firstname@lastname.me but I also have it set up with proton Mail as a catchall email address so I can give out literallyanything@lastname.me and it all goes to the same inbox with the ability to filter and send some addresses strait to trash.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I used to do that, but it caught far too much spam sent to random usernames on every domain. Now I have a fixed prefix and do prefix+literallyanything@lastname.me, which gives the same benefits with less spam.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    It is like a tattoo: Do not think too much about the first or third tattoo/domain. the tenth will give you an feeling and the 15th you feel completed. Just start with one and as soon as you have control over your first digital cert endpoint, you can forward easy from it to any other domain in you control and depricating out unwanted domains over years without problems. It is a road not the destination to choosen your first domain. Hit the Road Riddick and don't you come back no more.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    The first one I registred back then was uncreative yet convenient: My full legal name. I like to advise almost anyone to do so.

    For all the places where you do not need or want to reveal your identity you can use something harmless website3001 (or just any random number)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    five random letters. short enough to be easily memorizable & easily communicated by voice. no homophones, even in other languages. no one going to try to buy the domain out from under you. You could try four random letters, but that runs more risk of colliding with acronyms.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (3 children)

    For me it was just numbers .xyz and I am happy with that. Date of birth if you use it for private stuff and its $1 a month at namecheap.com.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    ______mail.com, just come up with something available to fill the blank.

    Then, use unique addresses for all services you sign up for, and they look like individual accounts created at some mail service.

    You can even make a boilerplate static site at the domain to look like a genuine mail service.

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    [–] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Leaving this link here might get me a lot of downvotes, but I for one am not going to set up my own domain for personal mail and am happy using Proton. They offer a tool for gmail users: https://proton.me/blog/proton-mail-connect-gmail

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  • [–] 19 points 1 month ago

    The benefit is that you can keep the same email if/when a provider enshittifies, including proton.

    Custom domains are a lot like open sourcing in software; helps keep the SaaS honest. If most customers use a custom domain, the service provider would act based on the knowledge that they could lose most customers easily.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Last time I looked at it the service I wanted to use to register a domain asked for my full legal name and address for the process. This would have then shown up in some publicly available repository of registered domains, at least that's how I understood it.

    It this something all registrars have to do or did I get this wrong?

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    It used to be the default and you could pay for privacy. I think it's free these days.

    FYI, Mozilla do free SSL certificates (for HTTPS) these days which used to be quite expensive.

    https://letsencrypt.org/

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Sadly posteo doesn't do custom domains, otherwise they would be a near-perfect provider...

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    [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Okay? Or just setup forwarding

    This is a neat trick but also very unprivate as your mail will be unique and a huge barrier (monetary)

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

    Where do you recommend to buy a domain?

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago* (6 children)

    I had the exact same question and found this overview from hostinger and decided to go with porkbun because renewal is cheap and the website's search works with only porkbun's javascript (in contrast to spaceship which was the cheapest but even loaded some js from bing
    thinking feddit logo

    edit: according to forbes porkbun has more TLDs than spaceship

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    But porkbun is not european, right?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    here we go:

    domain renewal prices for .com on different european registrars taken from europena-alternatives.eu:

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    [–] [S] 3 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Main issue for me is my current mails. How easy/hard is it to move everything i already have over to the new provider.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    It actually very easy - majority of email providers have a email transfer service; and if thats not your cup of tea then you can manually export and import them.

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    [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    I'm praying this since for more than 20 years.

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