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What is a sub/community that you wish existed (actively) on Lemmy?

Maybe there are others like you and we can actually get it running, or maybe to already exists but you just don't know!

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[–] nevermind@lemm.ee 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Off the top of my head:

Learning Polish

True Crime

Cat Pictures

Wildlife Pictures

Jaguars the big cats, not the car lol

Admiral Cloudberg

Relationship questions

[–] sihil@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Psychonaut, DPH, heavymind, ObscureMedia, paintxp

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 1 points 1 month ago (3 children)

More women-oriented communities would be great. Skincare, makeup, women's fitness, female health, nail polish, aging. I'd love that.

[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Agree! I'd love to see more discussion around female health, not necessarily constructive but just bants about the 'gross' stuff, memes and complaints and stuff. The issue is that I'm a comment contributor more than a poster, as much as I try. So as much as I'd like to Be The Change, it really has to come from a lot of us posting and interacting.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 1 points 1 month ago

Today CheeseToastie created a new community for women's interests. I've agreed to share it around so if you're interested, come join us at !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al

[–] britkatbar@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes! Or fiber/needle arts! Im struggling to quit reddit because theres like 6 crochet posts over here T_T

[–] CephaloSquad@discuss.online 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A nail one would be great. Maybe we can make one.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Today CheeseToastie created a new community for women's interests. I've agreed to share it around so if you're interested, come join us at !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al

And I've just posted in there a very important nail polish question! ;)

[–] CephaloSquad@discuss.online 1 points 1 month ago

Oh exciting!

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

All of the individual games I play and not just the general "gaming" subs. Plenty of video game enthusiasts on Lemmy; not enough to geek out over specific games. Or at least... Not the ones I play.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I also think it will be a long time before those can get up and running. There is much disdain towards video game companies on lemmy, and there is much right for it to exist. It does however make any community outside of the retrogaming hard to grow without the arguing.

[–] tehmics@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

This is a great reason to grow those places here, though. My biggest issue with game specific communities is the fact that the game companies try to control them. Most subreddits are moderated by the game companies, and official discords are a lost cause. We really need a neutral, public place to be to talk about games where we are allowed to actually be critical of them