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[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I left during the API thing, went back briefly later on, and left again when I realized how messed up moderation and subreddit rules had become. As usual, dumb business people are ruining that site for everyone.

[–] x00z@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I got banned a few times but it's not like I couldn't just make new accounts.

I didn't even want to be on that shit website from the beginning and was just waiting for a decent alternative.

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 5 points 1 month ago

That'd be me.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I got banned for implying there might be genocide going on in Gaza.

Several years ago.

"Anti-semite, you want to kill all Jews!"

Talk about "every accusation is an admission", eh?

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[–] kreynen@kbin.melroy.org 5 points 1 month ago

@Abraxas@feddit.uk Never banned. Started exploring alternatives during API changes. Staying on federated because it makes more sense.

Everyone understand how ridiculous it would if you could only email people on same email service, but for some reason we accepted that limitation as normal for social posts for many years.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 5 points 1 month ago

I was a 12 year account with nearly one million Karma, when I was permabanned in the post-Inauguration purge, for a comment I had made numerous times without an issue.

We were the people that built Reddit. When I started, nobody had heard of it. When I was "fired," it was one of the biggest websites in the world. It had become a cesspool of puns, trolls, bots, MAGA dickheads, Russian Propaganda Farmers, novelty accounts, and worse. It was already difficult to navigate to actual comments on some subs. Now that they have permabanned so many highly active active accounts, the problems has worsened significantly.

Lemmy is great, and I can speak more openly, although the mods are a little free with the removal tools. I miss some of the niche subs, like the guitar subs. The guitar community on Reddit is great, and very supportive of players. I wish Lemmy had that.

[–] ProteanG6777@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 1 month ago

Rude awakening came last year after using reddit since 2015. Got banned for responding to r4r prompts. These days its become a cesspit for telegram ads and spam. Ironical you ban humans for botlike activities but let bots roam freely .

Joined lemmy and mostly use discord as an alt for redit subs i was actively involved in.

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 5 points 1 month ago

I left during the API debacle.

[–] BromSwolligans@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Came during the initial revolt. Increased attention after getting banned from Reddit because I joked I'd like a guy with a bunch of guns to give me one cause he had too many. They tried to say I was soliciting for the purchase of firearms, and when I said there was no way any serious person could have thought I was asking to buy a gun, they told me the lifetime ban was in place and if I ever came around again they'd ban me for ban evasion.

Lul. That place is a total fucking hellscape.

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My first account was on .ml roughly 5 years back, when it was basically the only instance. I had heard about there being a FOSS alternative to Reddit - but I quickly lost interest because the community was just too small back then. Re-activated my account when the API exodus happened, because there was finally a community large enough to provide a lived-in feeling. Have only gotten more dedicated to the Fediverse ever since.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Wasn't banned, but I came here because I wanted to seek a genuine alternative. Reddit feels too censored and like you need to walk on eggshells to avoid the wrath of their moderators and admins.

Like... I genuinely can't use words like "incel", "cuck", "snowflake", "Trump", "Andrew Tate", etc without having my comment removed on most subs.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I did. Not banned though.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago

Not banned. It had been going downhill, so I made up my mind I'd leave during blackout, kbin.social had been shared by Ernest there (hope he's okay), and ended up on Lemmy.

Eta cool username

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

only fully transitioned when I got banned for some statement defending victims of violence

started looking during the API fiasco

[–] SparroHawc@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago

I bailed when they started banning people for upvoting Luigi content. I'd already drastically reduced my usage when the appocalypse happened and RIF no longer worked, but that level of panopticon shit was too much.

[–] dimjim@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

Like many in the comments, I left after the API changes. I'm not using their shitty app, and it's so bot infested now it's not even worth it.

[–] MangoPenguin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

My app stopped working due to their API stuff so I just kinda stopped using it over the next few weeks, after trying to use it in a browser which was horrible.

[–] nymnympseudonym@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

... and how many, like myself, were permabanned with no warnings by overzealous lemmy.ml mods?

(For posts that no, were not racist or -phobic )

[–] punkwalrus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

This platform became "mature" with less downtime around the Reddit API disaster, and I wanted to support it. I still use Reddit, but I go here first.

[–] Regna@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Had several accounts, some thrived as mods and active participants, some as mere commenters and some as mere readers. Otoh, I am still on Slashdot, Digg and other internet slush, was really sad to see bash.org go with my fun fun comments.

The internet will last. How we use it (with active, anonymous or sake accounts) continues to change.

[–] chosensilence@pawb.social 3 points 1 month ago

i was banned from reddit but had been wanting to leave for quite some time at that point, so it was a welcomed change. that's when i learned more about decentralized social networks and stuff.. glad to be here. i wouldn't go back to reddit even if i was allowed to.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 3 points 1 month ago

Had been thinking about leaving Reddit for a while because of inevitable enshitification but it was the API thing that prompted me to move.

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Was tired of getting shit on by mods. I got banned from a sub for agreeing with a mod. Dipshit couldn't admit that he made a mistake and permabanned me. I got banned from two subs I had never been in for blocking a mod on a sub he wasn't a mod on. Little unhinged always on basement dwellers.

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

Came here when Relay stopped working. Every now and again a Google search takes me there and I have Rdx so I can lurk without an account, but I don't really

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It was the API shutdown for me. I eventually got banned for mass editing+deleting my comments to nuke my old profiles on the way out the door. First one got banned from a few subs. Then subsequent accounts got site-banned for ban evasion, when I did the same on those accounts.

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 1 month ago

Got banned a little before the whole API thing because Reddit admins think child molesters deserve a safe space. Fuck them and their shithole site.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

2 years into the fediverse; left during the IPO enshittification nonsense when they removed public access APIs and made Apollo impossible.

[–] carlossurf@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

Me fuck reddit mods, bunch of basement dwelling nerds with nothing in life

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