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[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (13 children)

I'll never understand this. I'm 40 and I'm still actively seeking out new music and listen to vastly more new releases than anything 5+ years old.

Of course I understand everyone has "their thing" and music happens to be my thing, so I understand the additional interest in my case, but the alternative just seems so damn boring to me...

[–] MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

They’re just nostalgic.

[–] Floodedwomb@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Same. When I was a teen, I heard that your music tastes settle by the time you're 27. I thought, "Well, I'm not letting that happen to me!". I decided to learn to at least appreciate, if not enjoy, every genre of music i encountered. 25 years later and I'm still discovering and enjoying new music almost every day.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I listen to way more than when I was a teenager now. Probably not a genre out there now without something I appreciate in it.

I wasn't gonna listen to music that everyone around me said was rubbish, so I just stuck to the genres of my friend groups (first half of the 00s: so mostly indie, nu-metal and big beat/electrohouse/idm, which wasn't exactly leaving me to starve for stuff to listen to)

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’ve expanded my music library by quite a bit since then, but the core sounds remain largely the same.

The innovation of lo-fi though has been pretty sick.

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If you're into lo-fi maybe check out Nujabes, Japanese legend that is sometimes dubbed as the father of the genre even though it's decidedly different from the typical modern lo-fi style.

[–] rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

not op but thank u! i love this <3

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The music is amazing, enjoy. There is also the anime Samurai Champloo where he made the soundtrack, also highly recommend.

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[–] OddMinus1@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

14 year old me listened to a lot of heavy metal variations along with emo rock and that kind of jazz. Now, as a 34 year old man, I still occasionally enjoy some of that, but my music taste has developed and matured, so now I mostly listen to girly pop music.

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[–] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 15 points 1 week ago

Maybe because most people stop discovering new music because they're occupied with other stuff like jobs or having kids. And not because this music is deeply imprinted or such.

I'm still listening to SOME of what I like when I was a teeny, but 95% have shifted. Every decade I have a new favourite style. Went through rap, new age, opera, classical, heavy metal and currently black metal.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is actually not true at all for me. My music tastes completely evolved and still are evolving. Sure, if I listen to some 08 pendulum I feel some nostalgia, but I also feel nostalgia for 2112 in the same way. I think music is a comfort food for a lot of people so they never stray from what they know, which is fine. But there's so much out there to find.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 7 points 1 week ago

I agree. Now that I'm old, my tastes are finally starting to gel, but I'm still always looking for great new musical experiences. I've gravitated to LOTS of great music, and even entire new genres, that became a regular part of my listening long past 14.

I started playing the guitar again during the pandemic, after stopping for decades. Now I've become a good enough player, that most of the time, I'd rather just listen to my own self-played solo guitar music. That definitely wouldn't have been on my radar in my teens.

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[–] AltheaHunter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago

What a boring life that would be, damn.

[–] hex@programming.dev 12 points 1 week ago

I listen to 100x more varied/different music than I used to listen to.

but I also listen to what I used to listen to.

[–] sevan@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Not even a little bit true for me. I listened to pretty much only country at 14 and I don't listen to any country now, not even the stuff I liked then. By 16 I had switched to mostly rock & alternative. I will still listen to that occasionally, mostly for nostalgia, but it isn't on any of my playlists. I suspect most everything on my regular playlists came out after I was 30, but it continues to shift forward over time. I suspect eventually most of my current playlist will age out too.

[–] ViatorOmnium@piefed.social 11 points 1 week ago

I listen to almost everything except what I listened at 14. At some point I figured out my peers had terrible musical taste and I started listening to what I actually enjoy.

[–] Honytawk@feddit.nl 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wouldn't brag about my music tastes not updating with new music.

I couldn't stand listening to the same 10 songs for years.

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[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago
[–] reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Would you like to talk about your new trauma?

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[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

While I still like most of the music I did at age 14, I continue to find new music I like. I don't discard much. If I liked it at one point I usually still like it.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My musical tastes have changed dramatically through my life. I think that if you are still listening to the same thing as when you were 14 and now you're 40, you're probably lacking curiosity.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Not everybody is like that. I didn't hear a lot of pop music until college, and didn't really develop my own taste until my 20s.

[–] diptchip@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A lot of people are happy enough inside their comfort zone, they're likely to die there. The people that say they haven't made good music since the XX's probably haven't spent much time searching for music they'd like.

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Also here to brag about how my musical taste never stopped evolving. If I stayed stuck at 14 I'd still be a metalhead but I barely listen to any these days, meanwhile I've been through many more phases, I keep the bands and songs I loved most from each phase and add it to the pile. Also as I stack up the years my tastes gravitate towards lower and lower BPM and energy levels. By the time I'm 70 I'll probably only listen to drumless ambient drones or whatever.

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[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

I rarely listen to what 14 year old me listened to.

Mostly because many of my favorite groups hadn't formed yet 😅

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 week ago

When I was 14, "Zombie", by the Cranberries, was the music of the year.

I still go back occasionally but there's a lot more to listen. And I've discovered other genres since then.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It ain't me, sis/bro. I might occasionally find a song to loop for a while, but in general I hate when things play on repeat. Always searching for something new.

Heres some YouTube channels to find music on

Strange Music Inc
Epitaph Records
Spinnin' Records
Nuclear Blast Records
CloudKid
Fueled By Ramen
Metropolis Records
XKitoMusic
MrMoMMusic
MonstercatUncaged
Rock Montage
Cleopatra Records

and if you don't have a YT Alternative who can play all uploads then here's an extension for it by Catbraaain, but you do have to navigate to the uploads tab to see it.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago
  1. I think it depends on the year. In my 14th year, there were relatively few bangers. There were a lot more ballads back then, and they've aged poorly.

  2. I predate digital music, I listened to the radio, but only had so many tapes, so I didn't get to hear what I wanted all the time. What I did get to hear where those ballads over and over.

  3. I only listened to rock and metal back then. I can now appreciate R&B and Country from back then, but I don't get nostalgic from it.

[–] Sektor@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Trauma Preserving is a nice name for a band.

[–] tacosanonymous@mander.xyz 3 points 1 week ago

But he said “persevering.”

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Who are these people

Are we just posting screenshots now?

[–] goatbeard@beehaw.org 4 points 1 week ago

This meme was written by a 19 year old

[–] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Does grunge / alternative rock still exist as a genre in any significant way? It never even occurred to me to look if there's still new stuff coming out in that style.

I like to listen to oldies from time to time, when I'm in the mood. However, it's usually just a temporary phase from time to time. Though I find it funny that someone mentioned "Semi-charmed life" in another comment because that song has popped in my head a number of times in the past month or so for no discernible reason at all. Sometimes when that happens it's because I heard a song in a movie or TV show, so that makes sense, but I don't believe that applies to that song.

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[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

False. I listened to nothing but classical, but now I listen to almost everything.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Nope. Once on a while I might listen to it out of nostalgia’s sake. Otherwise it’s churning through a bunch of garbage on spotify trying to find something decent. My other half otoh is constantly listening to our high school year’s music. It’s all the same, it’s the same top songs from the charts from the same top bands, over and over… I can’t handle the repetition.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

By that logic, I listen to "third eye blind, semicharmed life".

Just that one song though.

[–] ZeffSyde@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Just make sure you don't do a little crystal meth. It'll lift you up until you break.

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[–] M137@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Pretty sure this isn't true for most people. I don't listen to anything that I did as a teenager anymore. Sure, if I do hear some song from back then it's nostalgic and I do put on a song now and then, mostly at parties when the topic comes up or you know others there would like it but it's very much not part of my daily listening. And I feel the same kind of nostalgia for things I listened to in my 20s that aren't part of my current tastes. But I never put on whole albums or playlists of just bands and songs from then. I'm certain that most of the music I listen to now would have been liked by my teenage self though, just hadn't explored and expanded my taste and knowledge as much.

And I feel people who only listen to stuff from their teens are kinda sad and I feel bad for them, they certainly have some trauma or other issues that make them stick to that and never want to explore both new music and themselves in what they might discover they like.

[–] Phen@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 1 week ago

I didn't even start listening to music until I was already an adult.

[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

I still have nostalgia for stuff I listened to at 14. But I would say my music tastes solidified more around the age of 25. Fairly broad tastes in music depending on my mood. It's easier to list bands and music I hate than everything I like. I suspect a lot of people are the same.

[–] MistressRemilia@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 week ago

Add 7 years and I can see it.

[–] mineralfellow@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

My daughter listens to music while brushing teeth as a form of pleasant timer. We have been through the entire Weird Al discography (but had to listen to a few of the longer ones when not brushing teeth). Teenage me would approve.

[–] vala@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

My music taste has expanded and changed quite a bit since I was in HS. Some of the things I liked then still hold up, but I would NOT have liked the things I do now when I was in highschool.

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