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The seller in question was selling items they didn't have at a nearly 50% markup.

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[–] vala@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This is for sure just an LLM running sentiment analysis on the reviews and sending this prewritten email to anyone who left a review it analyses as being negative.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

They finally fucked off after enough time has passed for me to reverse feedback I think.

[–] Flummoxx@lemm.ee 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My wife bought a Keurig coffee maker on Amazon for a Christmas gift. When it arrived, the box was mailed directly from JCPenny.com. I looked on their website and the coffee maker was $35 cheaper. We learned our lessons about dropshipping and only looking at Amazon for products.

Keep fighting the good fight OP!

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Amazon hasn't been the cheapest for things in a long time. There's a few segments where they are competitive, but it's generally only small things that are cheaper to ship. The more people that learn this the better.

There was a time when you could have kitty litter delivered to your home for less than it cost at a local store, but that hasn't been the case for a almost a decade.

[–] Flummoxx@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

Yeah, whereas I used to have dog food shipped from Amazon because it was cheap and convenient, now I pretty much only do it for the convenience, because it's priced the same as Petsmart and Petco.

[–] hcbxzz@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Small items have the shipping bulit in, so there's nothing useful under $10

[–] grue@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

So you returned it and re-bought it from jcpenney.com, right?

[–] Flummoxx@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

Nah, it was a last-minute gift for her mom, and my wife didn't want to go empty-handed. The bad guys won that day.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think I'm gonna wait a few days before telling them no. Or maybe just not respond. I'm sure as hell not changing or removing my negative feedback. Clearly my review is worth more to them than the cost of the item.

[–] Slagfart@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Just take the item and run. Underhanded tactics deserve underhanded tactics

[–] VerPoilu@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Change your feedback, get the refund, and change it back.

[–] JazzlikeDiamond558@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

This is underrated comment. XD

[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)
[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Yeah they send you a forum through ebay that allows you to change it. It doesn't work the way it does on Amazon.

[–] 3aqn5k6ryk@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

This happened to me once but diff platform. I gave the seller 3 out of 5 stars. Seller messaged me with the same m.o. I changed the stars to 1 and attach the screenshot. Fuck them.

[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

stay safe

Well, that doesn't feel vaguely threatening at all...

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Are they not spamming 5 star reviews to the limit so that no new ones can be submitted anymore? Because that's also a thing they do with less effort.

[–] teft@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Update the review with a screenshot of their begging.

[–] Goretantath@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Update it to include being pestered by them to change to a positive review.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

To being blackmailed into only receiving a refund if they change their review. I see nothing in there about them giving a refund if they don't change it first

[–] Jesusaurus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Change the review, get the refund, change it to a one star and include conversation snippets regarding asking to change the review

[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

One time on Amazon, I purchased an air conditioner. The model they sent was not the model I bought so I went for a refund and to send it back the to the seller.

The seller representative basically tried to spin it as though the model I received was actually better than what I had tried to buy.

I told him that I didn't care, it is not what I bought, that this "better model" is twice the width of what I wanted and it states in its manual that it needs to be on its own dedicated circuit.

The fucking guy kept this up over a few messages. I told him that if he didn't take it back, I would just charge back my credit card because this was clearly a bait and switch

The next message the guy sends, he says that me "threatening" him by saying I'll charge back the card is immoral of me, and makes an allegory equating it to murdering someone by shooting them.

At this point I contact amazon proper, and give them the entire message log. The amazon rep is fucking horrified and says that they will investigate the seller.

The fucking guy sends me a message telling me that I shouldn't talk to amazon, because my correspondence with them gets CC'd to him.

I forward that message to the amazon rep as well.

The guy loses his fucking shit, starts making guesses at where I live, what I do for work, a bunch of shit. He says that he has a double major in marketing for some reason.

I demand that I never have to interact with him again. In his last message to me he tells me not to leave a bad review as it is a family owned business.

I leave a lengthy and scathing review, noting that someone with a double major in marketing who acts like this must have wasted a lot of money on their post secondary education.

I get connected to someone else who isn't insane who in their first message sends me the slip to mail this fucking air conditioner back, and I get my refund.

[–] makyo@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I had an Amazon seller offer to send me a gift card if I changed my review so I said I would take the card but would probably only change my review to note the gift card offer.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Had that happen on Amazon and ebay multiple times

I always tell them I'll only increase it one star and the reason for the change will be the first thing anyone sees in the review, even above the original review.

So far I've only had one taker.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

It's explicitly against Amazon's ToS to incentivize reviews, or write/modify reviews in exchange for any kind of compensation. This includes the typical business card included in the box with the product pleading for 5 stars and promising "free gifts" or store credits. When I still used Amazon, any time I got one of those it was the only thing I mentioned in my review.

I don't know if anyone actually meaningfully enforces this, but quite a few things I've reviewed in such a way seemed to disappear from the site more quickly than usual.

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I left negative feedback for dropshipping

Not all heroes wear capes (unless you do, OP).

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I wouldn't mind wearing a cape lol. Underrated fashion accessory.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Flowy thin capes that just make you look dramatic: cringe, impractical

Heavy, thick capes big enough to drape over a buddy for cuddles: hot + chad

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Wife wore a cape/cloak for our wedding. 10/10 would marry again.

[–] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm out of the loop, what's drop shipping and why is it bad?

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

The seller just buys the item on Amazon and sends it to your address usually at an inflated price. They sell stock that they don't own.

[–] tiramichu@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

To play the role of the annoying five year old, "And why is that bad?"

[–] Protoknuckles@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

They offer no service or benefit. They are a needless middleman.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Can't people just buy directly then, why do they choose to use these dropshippers?

[–] Protoknuckles@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Usually people are unaware they are dealing with a dropshipper.