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This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

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[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 months ago (4 children)

just curious; did something happen recently because posts from the instance suddenly started appearing on my tl again? didn't see any other post so i didn't know if it was a bug or something :)

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[–] gressen@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can you please link to specific offenses?

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[–] 2hundredpancakes@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for doing what you do.

It's ridiculous we are still having to deal with this in 2025. Just yesterday I had to see someone using the tslur as a "joke" under a .world post. Mods removed it. It's not hard to be decent, although some people decide to make it look like an impossible task. As far as I'm concerned, hate speech is not free speech...

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[–] reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

Censorship lmao. I get where you're coming from, but pulling a ostrich with your head in the sand is not a productive way to go about it.

[–] araneae@beehaw.org 1 points 3 months ago

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Hey sounds like you should use feddit.uk as your main and share your opinion there where it will be received.

[–] reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org -1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Go fuck yourself as well. Kindly.

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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 0 points 3 months ago

trans women are not women

Wasn't this a recent court ruling in the UK? Which isn't great.

I don't know all of the terminology, but the entire argument over it just seems so stupid, how does letting trans people exist bother you in any way?

[–] honeynut@lemm.ee -1 points 3 months ago (19 children)

This is a good move. I've reported a lot of tankie-like remarks on feddit that never get their comments removed and it's concerning. Better to cut off any suspected tankie incubator than suffer the consequences

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I'm unsure what tankies really are and why people are so divided on them. Are they transphobic?

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[–] fishos@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

One user upset you and the admins didn't capitulate exactly how you wanted, so you're defederating...... You're making way more drama out of it than anyone else. How do you handle any sort of difficult situation in your life?

[–] GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] fishos@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This is why no one takes y'all seriously. Expecting every interaction to be perfectly suited to you or you opt out. Guess what, life has adversity. Life has difficulties. But if you shut yourself off from everything that makes you slightly uncomfortable, you'll never grow and develop as a person.

[–] GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Who do you mean when you say "y'all"? Either way, I've faced enough adversity that I've overcome to laugh at your comment, and I bet people reading this have, too. Your comment might make you feel better about yourself, but it has very little to do with the realities of the people reading it. I'm sorry you're not as insightful as you hoped.

If you keep othering people and making assumptions, you'll stay as ignorant as you seem. That's not a very productive way to be. I hope it gets better for you.

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[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Blahaj doesn't allow transphobia, period. It is a safe space for those who don't have anywhere else safe to go on the Fediverse. If an instance refuses to deal with its users being transphobic, then it gets defederated, simple as that. It's better to defederate from problematic instances than to allow Blahaj's userbase to have to deal with transphobia, both casual and direct. If its users wanted to be around that, they wouldn't be on Blahaj. It's pretty telling that 99% of Blahaj's vocal userbase is supportive of Ada's decision here.

The feddit.uk admins failed to remove transphobic nonsense from their instance and went silent when told how and why it was a problem by Ada including violating feddit.uk's rule 1. Hence, defederation until they get rid of that transphobic nonsense.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago

They didn't ban the people on their instance like you wanted so you shut out the entire instance. I love watching "liberals" discover disctorships in their own communities. It's cute.

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml -1 points 3 months ago

you're making drama

projection, lol

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