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[–] hoch@lemmy.world 1 points 8 minutes ago
[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Okay so who here toasts their spices?

[–] Ludrol@szmer.info 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Black cumin and rosemary, sometimes habareno pepper

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 17 minutes ago

What do you think habanero goes well with? My father had no taste buds and could really only detect oil, salt, fat, and heat. Naturally this lead to him overloading in one area or another, because that's all he wanted to taste. One time he served me pizza with crushed habanero and the floral perfuminess bowled me over. I've never really used them since, but I remember loving them before that incident!!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

Summer savory!

[–] HakunaHafada@lemm.ee 2 points 21 hours ago

Salt, pepper, cumin, and paprika.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago
[–] mossberg590@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 14 minutes ago

Yes actually you win. I had fresh for the first time last year and it destroyed my mind.

[–] 0ops@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Hungarian paprika is awesome, I like to mix the sweet and hot varieties 50-50, and often use smoked paprika on top of that. I like paprika

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 7 points 1 day ago

Salt, maybe

[–] sirico@feddit.uk 4 points 1 day ago

beige is not a spice

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Smoked paprika ‼

[–] Carbonizer@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Smoked paprika. It just adds so much depth to anything that I add it to! I'm also a big fan of cumin and turmeric.

[–] PillowTalk420@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The only 5 spices you'll ever need:

  • Salt

  • Pepper

  • Onion powder

  • Garlic powder

  • MSG

There is nothing, and I mean nothing, that doesn't benefit from these 5. You can always add other spices, too, but these are the baseline for every single dish that isn't meant to be sweet. And even on some sweet stuff, it's pretty good. I tried it on waffles once and it was amazing.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 day ago

I agree with the first two and sometimes the last (though I tend to go for stocks instead to get the umami). I'm really not a fan of the onion and garlic powder, though. If I need onion and garlic I get onion and garlic. Don't like the powder forms.

Garlic salt is what I use on anything when I don't wanna think about it but want it to be delicious. Black pepper to finish most things.

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bay leaves in savory dishes

Nutmeg on/in sweet things

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Nutmeg also rocks in mashed potatoes and cheese sauces!

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I consume both those things frequently, I’ll have to try it! I switched to freshly grinding my nutmeg earlier this year and will take any excuse to try it in different things.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I bought five nutmeg nuts two years ago... I'm halfway through my third one lol

Doesn't take much hey

Oooh that's a good price for 12 lb of nutmeg

[–] reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net 2 points 5 hours ago

See, now you have something useful to leave for the next generation

[–] onion_trial 5 points 1 day ago

Salt, Pepper, Cumin and nutmeg

[–] TheFeatureCreature@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Cinnamon. Love it to bits.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 9 minutes ago

Could you guide me on where to get some from a reputable, honest seller? There is none and I mean none in my city and I have looooooked and looked. I detest A-Z, too much tomfoolery and fake stuff.

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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bebir (Aleppo pepper) - it's a very mild red smoked chili that has incredible earthiness, and only a soupçon of warmth. I put this in everything, even dishes that are supposed to taste bright

Espresso - I make lazy pot espresso and save the dregs. I put the coffee in so many dishes. Sometimes where the base ingredients are too acidic or sweet. But I will also add it in gravy, sauces, stews, braise my meat with it. A couple tablespoons in a pot of spicy soup. It's so versatile and deep

Cane sugars - raw, turbinado, or demerara - minimally processed where the molasses remains in the crystals. I know sugar has a bad reputation in our insane twisted diet lifestyle, but it's fine for a cooking, and it's amazing to caramelize things when frying or to take the edge off acidity. You need the tiniest amount. I will also pulverize it in a mortar and pestle... A teaspoon sprinkled on kettle corn is ludicrously delicious

[–] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Does cooking with espresso mean all your food is caffeinated? Or does it cook out eventually like alcohol?

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

That's a good question.

I don't know if the molecule is destroyed or transformed.

But I use so little that it wouldn't affect anybody anyways... I don't even think a child who is naive to the molecule would feel a thing

Edit... My curiosity got the best of me, I wasn't able to Google the answer directly, but I found articles asking if reheating coffee destroys the molecule. Apparently an organic chemist got involved and stated that the molecules pretty stable, it will only break down around 350 F. So that would mean most of my food probably has the full effect of whatever caffeine was there.

I accidentally poisoned a love interest when I made her lasagna with espresso in the sauce. Turned out she was allergic to coffee, not caffeine. I didn't know... but whoops a daisy lol

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Caffeine is very stable, yes. But you're not adding much if you're adding just the dregs post-brew. Most of the caffeine is gone by the end of a normal brew. (This is quite unlike tea where you need several brews to get all the caffeine, so despite teas having more caffeine by weight than coffees most of the time, brewed tea has less.)

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 1 minute ago

You sound confident, like you know things!

I feel like the espresso I brew isn't really that potent? I get a 330ml mug of espresso out of 10g coffee grounds. And then it's not even real espresso, it's just crummy stove top pot "espresso". I started drinking it that way because I was poor and it was a great way to get a lot of flavor for a little coffee grounds. Which I'd also occasionally recycle haha. But I'd be curious to know how actually potent it becomes. How would a person measure such a thing?

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 day ago

I use paprika in pretty much everything I cook

[–] zod000@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Salt, garlic, ancho chili powder, marjoram

[–] Bronstein_Tardigrade@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thai 🌶️ If the food doesn't make you sweat, it isn't any good.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 day ago

I'm with you there. I used sliced and dried finger peppers in my breakfasts.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Garlic, Onion, Paprika, Lemon Pepper, Gochugaru.

[–] Zerlyna@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

“All the spices!” lol I really enjoy Tarragon and Black Garlic. Not necessarily together.

[–] Bbbbbbbbbbb@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Salt and pepper in every dish. Hands down my favorite.

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[–] Blaze@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Parsley, if that counts. I don't really enjoy spicy food 😄

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I hate parsley! I genuinely hate it. You can have all mine

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[–] TheFermentalist@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sumac! And garlic, paprika, and asafoetida. Love ‘em all

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[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I wanna say cilantro, but...

Can't go wrong with a combination of garlic, ginger, and chili pepper.

Smoked paprika, cumin, ground coriander, cayenne pepper, cardamon

There are so many more, but these are probably my most frequent flyers

[–] Marighost@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Black pepper and chili flake are my go-to. Chipotle powder too. I'm also a sucker for za'atar, which is amazing on roasted potatoes.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Based on frequency/amount of use, cumin.

Based on my favorite flavors, mustard seed, oregano, smoked paprika, lemon thyme, dill.

(The above excludes the obvious salt and pepper, as well as onion and garlic since I use those in enough quantity to be considered full-blown veggies, not spices.)

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 3 points 1 day ago

Smoked paprika, turmeric, coriander, nutmeg, cinnamon

And salt/pepper

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