That seems wild that people would accuse you of being a transmed for having a looser definition of dysphoria. Usually transmeds have tighter definitions to exclude others.

Fair enough I wasn't thinking about people who have an open mind or are willing to change. More thinking of the kind of person who says I'm hurting trans people because I like and keep my natal genitals, or because I use xenogender lables (demongender by the way). I guess when they keep their mouths shut they aren't much of a problem and maybe more people are willing to change than I've previously thought.

@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone Like what they said. I did make this to hear opinions but was also hoping it would draw some out of hiding who hadn't been banned yet. I was reading threads on Reddit before posting this and was unsettled by how many transmeds there are on that platform and was concerned about how many might be on Lemmy.