Nefara

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[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Sure they do, all the time, as long as it's an interesting story.

More than half of the books on this list are by "random" ie, non famous people.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

This exactly. It's an easily recognizable legal shortcut to a bunch of systems, rules and privileges that apply to the situation of two people wanting to live their lives together. Doesn't have to cost much, if anything, and doesn't have to have anything at all to do with religion or rituals. Can be just two people showing up at the town hall if you want it to be.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Love ballroom dancing, and especially east coast swing is my jam. Unfortunately no regular social dances in my area but I go when there's one available. It's really fun and playful, great way to meet new people and good exercise. Equipment cost is basically a pair of shoes. I joke about dressing up in a dress and heels for my workouts.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

It's definitely not Guild Wars 1, but it does still have a "low level cap" in the way that it's extremely easy to get to max level doing a variety of content, then the vast majority of content is done at that level. You probably reach level 80 within completing not even 5%-10% of the total available content, so it's just a number. The way you "advance" your character is through gear and cosmetics, and there's an account leveling system called masteries you unlock at 80.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

As a long time fan and proud GWAMM, honestly it doesn't need the "classic" treatment. It's still online, and the last major content patches didn't change anything significant enough to alter the gameplay in a way that would make people "miss the old days". They added some end game content and some quality of life improvements and some tools that allowed players to more easily solo content, then left well enough alone. It still has a small core of regular players, and has the event schedule going on auto. I suppose they could do some graphical improvements but it's still a very good game as it is

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Considering how famously hard to kill werewolves are, it would probably have to be a chocolate wrapped in silver and then eaten with the foil on to do any real harm.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Posted most of this in another thread but I'm glad to help share my tricks. I have managed to nearly eliminate Amazon entirely from our lives for the past two years. I usually find things by searching what I want to buy on DuckDuckGo and then adding "-amazon", "-etsy", "-walmart", "-temu" and "-pinterest" as search modifiers.

A lot of little shops are perfectly legit, but watch out for:

Things being ridiculous bargains. Small shops will almost always be more expensive due to higher overheads and less bulk

Too much variety in product (unless they're a marketplace with 3rd party vendors). A legit shop will have inventory that makes sense together in its theme. If they sell everything from bubblebath to uranium they're either probably not actually selling it or drop shipping it.

Pictures that look like they come from lots of different sources, or no consistency in images. If they don't have their own pictures of products or standards of presentation that's suspicious

Some general recs:

For anything electronic or computer related: B&H Photo or Microcenter

For music stuff: Sweetwater, but there's a lot of great small music stores, or you can use a marketplace like Reverb

For clothes: if you have any clothes you already enjoy, go directly to their brand website. If you don't, go to local secondhand shops and touch, handle and try on some clothes to see them in person. I've discovered some brands I like by finding something in a thrift store that was well made but not my size or preferred color.

For house repair and DIY stuff: we order from a local building supply store, but there's also hardwareandtools.com, 1stoplighting, Waysource, Lightbulbs.com, Timothy's Toolbox etc.

For food items, local grocery stores often offer online shopping and delivery. If it's a specialty item or imported the import companies sometimes have their own websites. There's also Hive or GroveCo for some granola type B Corp goodness

For tea, coffee and spices, Adagio and its sister websites

For super fast, need it now shipping, Target has a lot of the same things Amazon does and even does same day delivery for an extra fee for certain items.

For something hard to find you can't find another site for, try Ebay.

I do business with all sorts of independent retailers and have only had good experiences with them. These are sites that I've personally bought from but there are a lot of smaller sites just trying to make a place for themselves on the internet

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Really enjoyed the whole series, and when I heard about the adaptation I was psyched. It's a very cinematic series that is begging for adaptation. While there's definitely a lot of deadpan humor in the books, the trailer seems a lot more "whacky" than it should be. Hopefully they're just playing it up for the trailer. I was also hoping for a more androgynous/NB murderbot but I could be won over. Either way, I'll definitely be watching

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I have never been, nor seem to be able to get motion sickness. No seasickness either. I can read books on all sorts of moving vehicles, and I love roller coasters. Whip me around upside down in pitch dark at 60mph and I'll just call it a good time. My husband says I am squandering my powers because I can play as much of whatever motion intense VR game as I want, but I just end up playing Beat Saber most of the time.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 27 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

For a while, I played the MMO Guild Wars 2 as a music simulator. It has playable in game musical instruments that you can equip, and play with the number keys. A-G are represented with the numbers 1-8 with 9 and 0 swapping an octave lower or higher. Killing monsters? Doing dungeons? Raids and world bosses? Nah I'm just chilling on a beautiful forested cliffside near a waterfall figuring out an arrangement for the Lord of the Rings theme.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Cute idea, but disappointed that it's just a reskinned car racing game. I read the title and I imagine a "cat scale" racer, running around indoors having to jump sofa arms and climb cat towers or doing an obstacle course in someone's yard, going under bushes and through kids forts etc. Just realizing now a cat parkour game in the style of Mirror's Edge would be good silly fun.

[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

I have an indoor only cat. I trim his front nails and have trimmed them his whole life. He sits completely passively and doesn't complain when I clip them. I trim them well away from the quick and only do so when they've gotten long enough that he gets caught on things or that I feel them or get scratched when he jumps in or out of my lap. He has no problems with me touching his paws and is very chill.

I had an indoor only cat who had been declawed by his previous owner. He was extremely on edge about his paws being touched, and growled, hissed and even bit if he thought you were going to try. He went straight to attempting to bite if you tried to touch him in a way he didn't want to be touched. He was extremely distrustful of all humans and it took me a long time to win him over.

IMO the difference is obvious and there's no comparison. Trimming a cat's nails, if done correctly, causes a cat no real discomfort or lasting trauma. Declawing a cat violates a cat's trust and causes lifetime behavioral issues and real harm. They are nothing alike.

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