captainjaneway

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[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thanks that's helpful as well! I'll check it out

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is probably what I should do. I didn't consider it because my PC was kind of weird for me. I didn't enjoy talking with him and he kind of had some less-than-progressive takes. I'm going to find a new PC and setup an appointment with them. Maybe I can even do a virtual visit.

It doesn't really address those deeper questions about fertility though. I feel like I need a chart or something that shows what meds impact fertility, how quickly, how likely, etc.

 

My therapist recommended that I speak with a specialist about HRT, the impacts it might/might not have, and discuss a plan. I tried Planned Parenthood, but it's not covered by my insurance. My insurance provider (UHC) seems to only provide me with references to surgeons for MTF surgeries, which I'm not interested in. I just want to speak with someone who can have a discussion about how HRT might work and how - in particular - it might impact my fertility. I want to know what options are available to me to increase the likelihood of maintaining my fertility.

Are there online services available to help me ask these questions and get answer specific to my goals? Does it make sense to try and sign up for Plume (which is covered by my insurance) for this kind of thing?

Yup. Much like Mr. Rogers who put his feet in a kiddie pool with a black man (I believe it was the mail man). Children's programming has always been empathetic and inclusive.

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Just some casual news headlines and captions:

Ms. Rachel doubles down on support for children in Gaza “It’s sad that people try to make it controversial when you speak out for children that are facing immeasurable suffering,” the YouTube educator said in a recent interview with Zeteo.

NBC News

Kids’ YouTube star ‘Ms. Rachel’ defends her Gaza comments in talk with anti-Israel reporter “Her increasingly politicized online presence should concern parents. Ms. Rachel has a moral compass — but it only points leftward,” New York Post columnist Bethany Mandel wrote.

NY Post

Why Tot Celebrity Ms. Rachel Waded Into the Gaza Debate Facing criticism, Rachel Accurso defends making the plight of children in Gaza a primary focus on her social media feeds.

NY Times

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There should only be 12 jurors (maybe you've already done this). People should have to wait in a queue to join a jury of 12. Once you have 12 you all vote within 30 seconds. Everyone should see the results. If a jury is a hung jury, it ends up back in the queue. Majority wins. Users can only appeal once.

Basically it should mimic jury duty a little more closely. Right now, it just feels like you're doing a survey.

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Totally agree. Plastic is useful. It's great for medical, sterilized, environments. It's great for emergencies. It's terrible for almost everything else.

If you'd like to read a relevant anecdote about plastics, please continue:

I'm currently struggling with the plastic industry on my keyboards right now. I have a 2016 Macbook Pro, but the scissor mechanism on my key broke on the board (not the key). In order to replace the keyboard, I'd have to spend $200-$400 on it. So, it's basically only good for recycling for parts now since the value of the Macbook Pro 2016 is basically the cost of the keyboard replacement. Someday, I might use it for just the hardware (e.g., on a docking station), but I want a laptop for - you know - walking around.

Instead, I "rescued" a Lenovo Thinkpad from eBay for $60. Unfortunately, the scissor mechanism on the same key broke last night. I got the laptop yesterday afternoon! But at least I can replace the whole keyboard myself for $30 so I guess I'll have a working laptop by Saturday night. Assuming no other plastic things break.

Anyways, my point is that plastic - especially plastic with a short lifetime - sucks. They should just use teeny metal bits for the scissor mechanism. Give my laptop keyboards some umph and durability. Stop building things that inevitable (apparently) will break!

I would have preferred exploding, but I'll take it.

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

<3 Thanks. It's helping that I can start doing some things to help alleviate the dysphoria :) I have things to look forward to for now.

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Same age here and similar timeline. I'm still figuring things out. I'm a remote worker so I can hide from my job in a lot of ways, but I'm not sure how it'll impact my career. Feel free to checkout the /c/TransLater community as well! I'm not out to my parents or siblings - only my cis wife. I don't think I'll be coming out to anyone anytime soon because my family trends quite conservative.

I'm excited on your behalf!

 

It's nice to know that they don't even have the propensity to care if I'm trans. They aren't perfect (my cat is a gremlin and my dog loves to dig), but I don't care. They are the best. My dog and cat have comforted me in my worst moments.

We are so lucky to live in a world where pets exist. Domesticated animals weren't a guarantee for us; especially cutesy predators. It's pretty awesome that we have mini wolves and tigers that hang out with us. Their love is pure <3

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