you can choose to adopt. i also think kids are cute, but the world is going down and i dont want to be responsible for a human, because i think if you start your life right now the whole world will be shit like 10-30 years from now on. the world is already shitty & im trying to life as good as possible. i also like cute dogs, but if i cant provide i dont get one. imo nobody is ready for whats comming. so yes ill use condoms ffs
efty
joined 1 month ago
never got that. like i get the drive to have sex, to do risky things or somethink spontaneous. But you can think about kids for years. you can always decide and take your time with the decision. i know for most people its not that deep, but for me i never got the feeling to want my own kids. why would i?
most people dont care about fairness. most people say thinks but dont mean it. thats what i learned. they talk just for fun and giggles. i only talk to learn or to understand somethink. i dont get why you should talk just like that without a reason. i dont know how to "play" this game named talking lol. and most people dont behave fair.
feeling like the whole society is absolute delulu atp. the world is going down so why the fuck would you set kids in this world? everybody is acting like they dont fear the future and everybody is just thinking one day ahead. do they really think its going to get better by magic?
my advises/comments on that straight up without thinking a lot about it: first of all dont take advises you dont like. you are the only person who knows exxxacly what you are going through, so i could get your situation slightly wrong, dont take me or others to serious.
imo everybody want to do somethink, but most of us are in a circle they cant get out. thats why we sent messages out there in any form with the hope that someone can help us out.
imo you need someone who pushes you to the direction you already want to go.
yes the us is fucked, BUT worldwide there is pressure in politics and a lot of aggression. dont underestimate this. the grass is always greener at the other side. that doesnt mean that you shouldnt go out there. you should.
the us is NOT the best country in the world and i think a new place could help you. if moving isnt helpfull you can always go back. but be prepared and think this trough..like dont overthink, but make a lil plan. you need to start somewhere. dont waiz for the right moment.
and my last comment: you are not alone with this. its completely normal in this time to not be alright. im am absolute not alright. you are not alright and so many more are not alright. thats okay.
wish you the best and follow your intuition! you are strong by being yourself