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Help Me To Get Rid Of Meta (facebook) (europe.pub)
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Is There any way to Escape From Meta(facebook) Survilence.

  • First of All I dont like whatsapp and Asked my contacts to use Signal instead to message me. Some of them did but many didn't because They don't mind their personal data being send to pervy facebook's survilence server. They Say things like "Am I doing Any Crime Then Why Should I Care" and "Only Criminals Will Try To Hide Their Conversation". Its hard to ignore whatsapp as most people will never to make a switch to signal or any other messenger.

  • Secondly I am tired of telling my friends to stop using Instagram. They are very addicted to it and can't leave its algorithm and slop. I don't use instagram for reels I only use it to communicating with my friends who only DM me reels and posts

  • Lastly I don't use facebook but many person I know uses it, when I took a look at it I was able surprised to see many unrestricted NSFW content was there under recommendation panel also Saw the same on instagram.

Any Recommended Stratergy To make them ditch Meta ?

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[–] 12 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

I'm gonna be super for real with you. If your friends won't download an extra app to message you on then they're not really that good of a friend. It's such a small inconvenience. Omg I have to hit this other button on my touchscreen instead and spend 5 minutes setting it up?

This is how I'd do it. You send a message to your friends on instagram and whatsapp with your signal info and say, "Hey, not gonna be checking [this app] often and won't have notifs on. Trying to be more responsible about my data, and social media use. If you need me or want to chat hit me up on Signal."

If their response to that is "Okay well I don't want to so I won't talk to you anymore." Then they're not a friend worth keeping around anyway. Real friends are the people who will wake up at 3am and come pick you up from the airport when your coming home. Because they actually care about you, and when you actually care about someone you do inconvenient things for them.

Now, if by "friend" you mean some person you've never met that you chat with online sometimes and send funny videos to or whatever? That's not really what I'd call a friend to begin with, and you'll just have to accept that relationship isn't very deep and it's totally normal for them not to want to do something just to talk to you. And in that case you have to decide if you'd rather stop talking to them, or stay on the other apps. That's entirely a you decision at that point.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 hours ago

    This is the real answer. You can’t force people. You have to accept that you just won’t talk to some of your people anymore.

    I got rid of meta 11 years ago. I have accepted that I won’t be invited to events and won’t talk to others anymore. Anyone who eventually wanted to talk to me made their account or started to call me instead.

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