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[–] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I love this, well done.

I really hope more people stop fooling themselves with these five minutes of happiness style purchases.

It's far more beneficial to find a hobby.

Please everyone, there are actually really damn fun things to do and explore out there that aren't algorithmically fed to you.

Paint, hike, take up photography(buy used!), learn something you lack, read a book.

Buying garbage isn't good for you, the planet, or your mental health when it's all said and done especially if you struggle financially.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    I hear you and you're completely correct, but neither my ADHD nor my depression cares about these things and I assume it's the same for most people (either one or both).

    Brain simply says no for… well, ever since. Buying something gives short bursts of dopamine, like eating something tasty.

    If your life sucks or you're currently under emotional pressure you take every source of happiness you can get. Though I'm heavily biased I'd wager most unnecessary purchases can be linked to this.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 day ago

    Those small dopamine hits also help to lengthen and strengthen ADHD and depression.

    Unfortunately the wife and I have been through both. It's a complicated issue especially since it's entangled with socioeconomic factors out of all of our control.

    I hope it gets better for you, and all of us soon.

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