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Anon tries being social (europe.pub)
submitted 5 days ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 21 points 5 days ago* (6 children)

Volunteer work backfires for a lot of people when they work at like food pantries though. You get a huge amount of entitled rude assholes and it can make you hate the public and/or the destitute

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  • [–] 13 points 5 days ago (4 children)

    It's hard reconciling the fact you are being generous (even indirectly) and the fact that poor people with fucked up lives may be a bit too busy with their shitty lives to show gratefulness.

    Like animals biting you when you rescue them, it's hard to understand, no doubt.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

    The other volunteers bite you too.

    And it's easy to understand, a lot of them are bored miserable people looking for an outlet and decided volunteering was the best way for them to power trip and pat themselves on the back while doing so. Or to get away form their wife/husband/kids that they hate. Def met quite a few people like that in my volunteering.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 days ago (1 child)

    Sad but yeah, I worked for a few years in charity and heard similar stories. I was IT so didn't have to deal with them directly, thankfully.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    The problem is the miserable people want to be in charge, and the good people don't. So the miserable people always end up in charge and drive all the good folks away, because nobody wants to work under a miserable person.

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