I had one whip on the front side, which left me one mark;, but to me, it's more of a memory lol.
I had been whipped once again before, but it was with a flogger, and the level of pain was 5. This time, I wanted higher, because of the roleplay.
I agree communication and pain play is always the key! No matter if she is a pro domme or your wife.
Thanks for the info.