[–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago

Yes that too makes a difference. The seller at least claims that soy burns at 56-60°C and rapeseed at 66-71°C. That was also what it felt like when using it, with rapeseed being a bit too hot for me to handle at any height

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I love these candles for their intense color and how opaque they are, they look so beautiful

    The shop is called Flame Marked Candles and is from Germany. Their candles are all vegan and handmade. They offer them made from soy wax and rape wax (worst english plant name ever 😅) the latter burning hotter than soy (I personally prefer soy)

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    If you look closely, it's actually the correct amount of toes. Just bad lighting and in the left side she's spreading her big toe back and one toe is caught on the rope. The uploader also just doesn't seem like an account uploading AI.

    The other upload actually has the source, which is a real user on Reddit with more pictures.

    @4sci@sh.itjust.works thanks for posting here, please also link the source here in the future

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 1 year ago

    Yes, they are all cane marks. The cattle prod didn't leave anything behind (although it definitely felt like it should have). I have this one little bruise on my leg now that might have resulted from being shocked for longer, but I'm not sure if it's from that

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Very happy for you ☺️ Pain can be such a nice thing, especially when your play partner has a good sense of how much you can take and knows what they are doing. Really sounds like you had an amazing time.

    I always love the aftermath and the marks it leaves, reminding one self of that good time. We're you left with any nice marks or bruises?

    In terms of a pain scale, I don't think there is a universal method. In medical settings you sometimes get asked to rate your pain on 0 to 10 (NRS: Numerical Rating Scale), but that is very subjective. In my personal experiences, there is no upper limit to pain. You can always go harder and more extreme. It's way more important to discover what your personal upper limits are and define your scale from 0-10. That's why it's very good to do pain play with the same people that you did it with before, as they will learn what you can take and adjust the session accordingly, without going to far.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Do pre-op trans-women stop having morning erections

    They do. Without enough testosterone, the body will stop doing this. More interestingly, (and somehow no man in the world knows this) men get erections at night when they sleep to keep their penile tissue maneuverable and stop damage to the erectile tissue even if they don't have sex or masturbate. With testosterone blockers, this stops and you need to do it manually otherwise you risk permanent damage (which is guaranteed otherwise). This is called penile atrophy, which makes any form of erection very uncomfortable and painful. As fitting as that sounds, kink should never play with lasting damage like that.

    I'm not sure how it could be properly framed in the IMs masturbatory fantasies

    I don't see it very differently from using a dildo, which was kind of already framed as feminine, not manly form of stimulation. It also opens the possibility of the vibrator being fixated to a chastity cage and "forgotten" to be take of. I see lot's of potential for humiliation with it

    I explicitly cheated for trans-folks and just said they can just self-identify - but maybe I shouldn't have done that?

    I think it's the perfect approach and doesn't really need changing. It's just nice to see someone considered trans people so well in a kink writing

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