Women want all kinds of things, just like men. Trick is finding a man or woman who wants each other, for whatever reasons. Open book test, there are no right answers.

I wanted this, that, the other thing, and some more besides, would have never picked my wife given a list of her physical features, beliefs and attitudes. Not so sure she would have picked "paper" me. But we're powerfully attracted to one another and overlook what we both thought would be "on paper" deal breakers.

I've posted this a lot lately, because I think Vonnegut's words on the matter are really important and been on my mind lately. I'll post the link if you want to have a look. There's a lot to unpack, and I think it's important, not only for relationships, but for our current social attitudes.

“You are not enough people!”

And if you think "not enough people" sounds great, refer back to the quote as to what you might be missing. I sure am missing. We did not evolve to live as we are in 2025.