@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

My understanding is that ADHD is highly heritable, so if you have it, likely she does, too.

And of course, with "command resistance"(?) layered on top, being told to do/not do something just makes it even harder.

I'm •still• recovering from the trip my mother laid on me about that, 40+ years later. Maybe Dani's image above will provide an entry point for a more productive conversation!