▲ 972 ▼ It's Women's Fault (lemmy.ml) submitted 2 years ago by miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/memes@lemmy.ml 323 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (12 children) Lol maybe talk to nicer women? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca -1 points 2 years ago (11 children) It's not a "niceness" thing it's instinctual permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I just want to butt in that while the meme is stupid, most women are not awful either. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) No of course they aren't. Who said they are? I'm saying women are put off my emotional instability aka "showing your feelings" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 2 points 2 years ago* Women aren't a monolith, just as men aren't. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way. Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (7 children) That's so fucking silly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (6 children) Why? Women want stability and protection usually permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (5 children) What does that have to do with opening up? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca -1 points 2 years ago (11 children) It's not a "niceness" thing it's instinctual permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 11 child comments replies: [–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I just want to butt in that while the meme is stupid, most women are not awful either. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) No of course they aren't. Who said they are? I'm saying women are put off my emotional instability aka "showing your feelings" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 2 points 2 years ago* Women aren't a monolith, just as men aren't. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way. Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (7 children) That's so fucking silly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (6 children) Why? Women want stability and protection usually permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (5 children) What does that have to do with opening up? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I just want to butt in that while the meme is stupid, most women are not awful either. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) No of course they aren't. Who said they are? I'm saying women are put off my emotional instability aka "showing your feelings" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 2 points 2 years ago* Women aren't a monolith, just as men aren't. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way. Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) No of course they aren't. Who said they are? I'm saying women are put off my emotional instability aka "showing your feelings" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 2 points 2 years ago* Women aren't a monolith, just as men aren't. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way. Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 2 points 2 years ago* Women aren't a monolith, just as men aren't. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way. Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (7 children) That's so fucking silly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (6 children) Why? Women want stability and protection usually permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (5 children) What does that have to do with opening up? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (6 children) Why? Women want stability and protection usually permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (5 children) What does that have to do with opening up? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (5 children) What does that have to do with opening up? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (4 children) Shows emotional instability permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children) You aren't connecting any kind of dots I can see. Maybe be more specific? Either way, it doesn't seem like you are basing your idea on real life. I've known plenty of women just looking for a nice guy, either you aren't actually putting yourself out there and are believing incel propaganda, OR you have had a few bad experiences that also aren't a representation of reality, just those few individuals. Edit: grammar permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) Well it's a good way to befriend women but it's going to make them not have sex with you, in my experience, lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Maybe you waited too long so they lost interest, or they weren't interested to begin with, or you need to work on yourself, or you need to try again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 🤷🤷♀️🤷♂️ I would suggest talking to a therapist instead of digging your hole deeper. Good luck though. I wish you all the pussy in the world, assuming you're treating women right Edit: clarification permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptnNMorgan@lemmy.world 1 point 1 year ago What is a good way to befriend women? I didn't suggest any action in the comment you're replying to, I merely speculated about why you're mistaken. permalink fedilink source parent
