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It has nothing to do with empathy. This is upper-class college white girl shit, where people get offended on behalf of a class they don't belong to and which the people who they are offended on behalf of don't really give a shit.
You pretend to be offended so you can signal to others that you are virtuous.
The easy, pointless, thought-terminating cliche against empathy. Well done.
"It's just ivory tower liberalism wahhh nobody actually cares!"
See, this is the part where I get to stop being nice. This is childish, rude, and stupid. You are falling back to wildly presumptive insults because you cannot defend your behavior. It costs you absolutely fucking nothing to be considerate.
Keep arguing with your imaginary friends then. Enjoy.
If everyone had to be considerate of every persons views, nobody would write anything. Nobody would be allowed to have opinions.
The world isn't all sunshine and flowers, buttercup. I'll continue to be imperfect, and use the words to describe what I want. If you want to get your blood pressure up, and get huffy about it, that's your prerogative.
Thanks, more bad faith "wahh we can't be bothered to consider people's feelings!"
Who has the time, I know. There's just not enough time in the world for you to ever change the way you think or act. Better just keep on never growing or improving. Never change a single thing about the way you interact with others.
I get it. It's just too hard for you to be considerate of others. Too much time, too much effort.
Who are you quoting?
I could ask you the same question about the word "retard".
You've used the slur countless times in this thread.
But no one in this thread has every said every man on the planet is toxic. Where did that strawman come from? Who are you quoting?
It is a slur. That is a fact, you cannot just say "nuh-uh" to facts.
You do not get to decide to override facts. You can't decide that a slur isn't a slur any more than you can decide the sky is red.
You cannot decide that up is down. You cannot decide that black is white. You cannot decide that cats are dogs.
"Wahh I still can't come up with any good faith argument so I'm gonna segue into some other sad little thing I get upset about and call you a hypocrite with absolutely no evidence!"
I know, I know, we need to be considerate of men's feelings. We need to be so considerate towards men that we should bring it up when it has nothing to do with the conversation.
But we don't need to be considerate of the feelings of humanity's most vulnerable populations. Who has the time? Who has the virtue?
Gee, that's funny. I could say the same exact thing about you for getting so upset over a sad little thing like someone using the word "retard", y'know.
Oh, how the turn tables. 😉
The tables turned...? I never once changed the conversation, so this childish "I'm rubber and you're glue" routine doesn't even make sense here. Go off I guess.
I get it. Generally people don't want to offend someone without due cause. And so we traipse around each other's idiosyncrasies. For the most part that is fine.
The problem comes from making a policy of it. People will say what they will say. Does that cause reputational harm if they say certain words? Sure. No one can stop you from changing how you feel about someone based upon their actions. But you can't stop them from saying it.
Let's go straight to the source. Let's talk about the N word. If you see someone in public use that word perjoratively - then you will probably consider them to be a bad person. You may even tell other people "That person said the N word and they are bad because of it." And that would be perfectly fine.
But what you can't do is tell them not to say it. Because it is their freedom to be a piece of shit and to say awful things and to demean and hurt others with their words. So if Joe Rogan wants to say stupid shit, let him. We all know he's an idiot.
Oh yeah... idiot used to have a clinical meaning too, you know. But I guess according to you I can't say that either.
... lol. That's not how freedom works. I can tell them whatever I want. That's how freedom works. But go on with your freedom. Go use the N word like that on the streets of a major city, we'll see how you hold up with that half-assed ideal when people rightfully tell you to stop.