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[–] wolframhydroxide@sh.itjust.works 36 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

As someone who was raised in a rather racist in-group, I can say that it took a really long time to purposefilly unlearn the automatic gut responses my father ingrained into me. I would, for several years, think or say something without considering it, and immediately realize what I had just said. Actions and attitudes are often automatic, especially when taught for a long time. I can certainly see where the uncle's coming from, because I'd imagine that the only reason I've been able to mostly get through it is because I got away from that situation when I went to college, rather than later in life.