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[–] NewDark@lemmings.world 113 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

They'd probably say something more like "woke and gay"

[–] galoisghost@aussie.zone 39 points 2 hours ago

And still. Same same.

Like if I met someone and they said check out that loser over there. He/she’s woke and gay. I’d be cool someone sane I can talk to.

Snowflake and brain washed

[–] SSUPII@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 hours ago
[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

This is my uncle, except instead of redneck, he's Cuban and die-hard GOP. He also hates my part of the family because we caught him, his daughter, and fiancée stealing from my dying grandmother despite him being her caretaker.

He did an amazing job at caring for her while also snatching valuables because he knew he'd have to share when she died.

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

Reminiscent of my uncle and his care for/leeching of my grandmother, except check this out.

Last time I saw him we were talking he told me “I am racist, but know racism is wrong, and I’m trying my best to teach my kids not to be like that”

Which is super self aware; so good for you? But I just can’t wrap my mind around how you can know racism is wrong and yet continue to be racist and struggle to teach your kids to not be racist. Like…just stop being racist?

[–] wolframhydroxide@sh.itjust.works 7 points 39 minutes ago* (last edited 38 minutes ago)

As someone who was raised in a rather racist in-group, I can say that it took a really long time to purposefilly unlearn the automatic gut responses my father ingrained into me. I would, for several years, think or say something without considering it, and immediately realize what I had just said. Actions and attitudes are often automatic, especially when taught for a long time. I can certainly see where the uncle's coming from, because I'd imagine that the only reason I've been able to mostly get through it is because I got away from that situation when I went to college, rather than later in life.

[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 hour ago

There's a strange duality of living or coming from the South in the US, and presumably, other places with extreme prejudice. Words or phrases get used like water such that they are etched into your mind, causing an almost Pavlovian response mechanism to trigger, despite one's true feelings.

It's almost like a game Red light, Green light, but for awfulness. I haven't lived in the South for decades, and on occasion, a hateful word will pop out of a dark hole in my head even though my real thoughts and actions run counter to it.

I can sort of understand his stance, but being aware of it is enough, at least to me, is more than enough to fix it. Anything other than that is intentional malice.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 58 minutes ago

I think I have pity for him being racist and not wanting to be, but I am confused. He can’t help the thoughts that go through his head, if that’s what he means, but I don’t know if he is also acting on those thoughts. If he is, then yeah, just stop, lol.

[–] danc4498@lemmy.world 12 points 2 hours ago

It’s definitely not what the racism uncle thinks. But I can tell you he doesn’t think he is racist. He thinks he’s “saying it like it is” or something.

He probably guy thinks you are a lazy person who just wants free handouts from the government.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 13 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I recently heard someone say their brother had married a woman who was so crazy she was “one of those liberals who would praise satan for Charlie Kirk’s death.”

[–] imsufferableninja@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 points 36 minutes ago

is cake day in here too?

[–] raptir@mander.xyz 8 points 3 hours ago

Something something both sides.

[–] KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

All my uncles are conservative, it's a living hell.

[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 points 36 minutes ago (1 children)

my brother is a conservative

[–] KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca 1 points 56 seconds ago

My condolences, It's hard to see it happened to the ones you love

[–] _wizard@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Haven't attended a big family thanksgiving in a very long time but I used to love. Was great poking an ignorant bear cub, peppering them with facts and questions they'd answer in direct contention with their supposed ideology.