Does anyone else see themselves in this article?

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[–] 6 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Even worse is when adults actively deny teaching you something basic like washing clothes or cooking food, always saying "Leave it to me". I am very resentful of that

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Ugh, I felt this. My sperm donor would "take over" anytime I asked for help, which led me to hating asking for help as an adult

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago

    And when you do get help, it of course comes with strings attached and you've got to spend the next 6 months dancing blind in a field of landmines waiting for the help you received to be thrown back your face and detonated.

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