It's kinda crazy that PUA stuff is coming back, because the bar has been so low for men now that it's extremely easy to find a partner that would have traditionally been kinda out of your league.
My wife taught dance for a uni and performed professionally for +10 years. The company she worked with is filled with beautiful women who are mostly partnered with the most normcore looking people in the world. Most of the older men/women who have been married to someone in the company for a while are just average Joes with typical jobs, no one is financially well off.
What all the partners have in common is that they are supportive of their significant others passion/career, kind, and not controlling. Like, that's really all you have to do. I've heard so many horror stories from the younger company members about the dating pool nowadays, makes me feel really lucky that I've never had to use a dating app.