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I gave her all of me for two years. I thought she was the one. And then she dumped me over text (europe.pub)
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[–] 6 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Soon you'll be able to see that someone that could do that is not someone worthy of being in your life. It'll get better, I promise. Sending you all the e-hugs!

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  • [–] [S] 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    She and her mom both said they still want me in their lives, and still want to be friends. Knowing that I'm still wildly in love with her. I'm never going to not want more, and trying to just be friends would just break my heart anew over and over

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Definitely don't do that, at least not until you're over it and that will take at least 6 months imo. Take space to heal, you can do this!

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago*

    Yes.

    Be done. Take time to heal. The memories will never go away and are part of your story. The next phase is building new memories absent of her.

    My experience is any form of, "Let's just be friends", is a death knell. Mourn how you need. Time does heal wounds. Then move on.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    Gosh I feel that one, I was once broken off with over the phone, too. It broke me for a year before I could move on. But move on I did, I found the one and she was worth the heartache. If it wasn’t for that messy hurtful experience I’d never met her. I wish you the same happiness, although I don’t recommend a year of heartache, results may wary on that one.

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