I'm split on it. I'm involved with someone who is in one, which basically means I am in one. I don't really want to see anyone else, myself. He already had another BF when we met. Sometimes I wish I was the only one so he'd give me more attention cuz we see each other maybe once a week, if he's not busy wifh work or school or his other friends. Which makes it feel like I'm just the one he sees when he can't see anyone else.