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Namrata Nangia and her husband have been toying with the idea of having another child since their five-year-old daughter was born.

But it always comes back to one question: 'Can we afford it?'

She lives in Mumbai and works in pharmaceuticals, her husband works at a tyre company. But the costs of having one child are already overwhelming - school fees, the school bus, swimming lessons, even going to the GP is expensive.

It was different when Namrata was growing up. "We just used to go to school, nothing extracurricular, but now you have to send your kid to swimming, you have to send them to drawing, you have to see what else they can do."

According to a new report by the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA), the UN agency for reproductive rights, Namrata's situation is becoming a global norm.

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[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Capitalism needs to choose if it wants everybody to work to exhaustion with slavery wages or if it wants people to have healthy relationships and kids. Can't have both.

[–] JohnEdwa@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

Ah, but there's the third option, just outlaw contraception and abortions. Capitalism is only incompatible with kids if you give your slaves the ability to choose if and when to have them.

[–] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago
[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

The reason there are fewer child births in the US since the 90s is mainly the reduction of pregnancies in the demographic "25 and younger". They didn't made a conscious choice, looking at their abacus and evaluating the state of the world. They slipped into it and were forced to make it work. Interestingly, they then still had children later in life as well, for more complex and personal reasons.

It seems to me, that if you give woman the choice, they choose not be pregnant at the cost of their career.

[–] SanndyTheManndy@lemmy.kya.moe 4 points 2 days ago

Great news. Now, time to focus on automating as much of elderly care as possible (and beyond) before it all goes to hell.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 5 points 2 days ago

This warms my heart. A rare bit of good news these days.

[–] Freshparsnip@lemm.ee 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago
[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 67 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I love my kids so much I chose not to bring them into this fucked up world.

[–] Alloi@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

ive been saying that exact sentance for my entire adult life. lol.

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[–] Kyle_The_G@lemmy.world 101 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Life is just too hard, I can't even get a dog because I'm so busy/exhausted all the time, the thought of caring for a child is just too much. Hard pass, I've only got one life and I'd rather live it on my terms.

[–] jhymesba@lemmy.world 28 points 3 days ago (3 children)

My wife and I made the same decision. We joke that Octomom had our kids.

8 billion people call Earth home. As another commentor has said, we probably should have half that. Your choice and our choice not to have kids enables that, even if only stupid people reproduce. With how the world is turning out right now, I think we both made the right choice.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 19 points 3 days ago

Yeah, with what the assholes have done to our trajectory, I think I’m fine leaving the world that’s coming to the stupid people and their stupid kids.

[–] Kyle_The_G@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Honestly thats another reason. I know how hard I've worked to get a decent life and I can only see it getting harder. It feels like it costs $300/day just to exist, I can't do that to another person.

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] jhymesba@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

I know this is in jest, but it's definitely something the shitheads would push. And my answer goes thusly:

No. The Economy hasn't done a damn thing for me, and it's done less for my wife. I'm treading water, unable to afford a house or a car on what was once an unfathomable sum of money when I was younger. It has done less for my wife, who relies on my job to keep a roof over her head. You want us to have kids? Reassure us that our kids will have a better life, and stop vampire-squidding us and sucking down every loose dollar.

[–] ddash@lemmy.dbzer0.com 74 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Not an English native speaker so this is probably on me, but I find it weird to call it a fertility decline. Like, fertility of people is probably going down but the reasons people don't have more kids are purely economical, as the article also says.

For me a better descriptor would be something like birthing rate or whatever. Fertility decline sounds to me like people are really at it like rabbits and just cannot get any pregnancies.

[–] RampageDon@lemmy.ca 27 points 3 days ago

Not on you. Your evaluation and understanding are indeed correct.

[–] Supervisor194@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago

No, you're correct, most articles of this type define fertility as "births/women" - whether the outcome is by choice or not. However, there is also a decline in what we might refer to as biological fertility (or "fecundity").

[–] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 35 points 3 days ago

Good. We elect fucking fascists and let people murder our world, we as a race deserve to die out.

[–] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 47 points 3 days ago (4 children)

We do need to reduce the human population. About 4-5 billion would be ideal.
On the negative side, we don't know how to handle this situation of declining population. The entire human history is one of non-stop growth interrupted only by catastrophic pandemics, which were the only way the population dropped so far.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

You're right, there is no economic system for dealing with this.

We are royally screwed. Global warming will only exacerbate the population drop, both through weather related deaths and less willingness to produce children.

If you're young, I'd suggest you learn to grow food. Not even joking.

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[–] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago

When business is the world's first priority, why does it come as a surprise that people don't feel like bringing an innocent life into the orphan crushing machine?

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago

I would never subject a child to the same life I have had to live

It's abuse

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago

I was intrigued to see this issue written about in an international context, as usually, the articles I see on this are US-centric and from right-wing sources who really, really want the poors to birth the next generation of exploitable labor and inexplicably ignore that the people they want to birth and parent these children are themselves being exploited and exceedingly impoverished too.

[–] nullPointer@programming.dev 19 points 3 days ago

i think there is a difference between low fertility rate and low birth rate. Its not like these people CANT have children, they are CHOOSING not to.

[–] SecretSauces@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Loss of biodiversity, climate change, more extreme weather events, ocean acidification, Gulfstream collapse, microplastics in literally everything, the rise of fascism, constant wars/oppression/genocides, everything being politicized and radicalized, capitalistic exploitation of consumers in every market, the mega-rich using their money to cause misery for profits, even more than I can think of right now.

Want more reasons why I don't want to raise my children into the world we are heading towards?

One could argue that the Internet and how we are now so interconnected is the cause of a lot of these things, but I think the biggest reason for it all stems from a lack of compassion. Compassion for fellow humans, compassion for fellow living creatures, compassion for the planet at live on.

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[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 3 days ago (9 children)

Population increase is only important to employers.

[–] kazaika@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

No its important for wellfare video

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[–] CircaV@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Maybe life shouldn’t be that expensive (food/shelter), and IVF programs be free.

[–] DerArzt@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Damn dirty communist out here demanding

Checks notes

Affordable living and healthcare

Just despicable!

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, what are those damn commies going to demand next, human rights?

[–] DerArzt@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago
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[–] Fingolfinz@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Fuck yeah. I got my nads snipped

[–] cabron_offsets@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Fucking good.

[–] propitiouspanda@lemmy.cafe 6 points 3 days ago

It's fine if rich people's children suffer retribution for the world their parents helped create.

Think about all the lineages of regular people that don't get to carry on because it's too expensive.

They're literally breeding us out of the gene pool.

Their kids are in for a rude awakening.

[–] codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Aside from the psychological/sociological side of it, PFAS and microolastics have been shown in some studies to reduce women's fertility and to mess with sperm. So environmental damage is also poisoning us and destroying our ability to procreate. Go team!

[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

The rich will fix it by putting out disinformation campaigns telling you it's all fake.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

That is one smug-looking baby.

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