cross-posted from: https://lemmy.zip/post/73406944

It all started when my main Reddit account was banned—simply because I posted a comment criticizing the banning of a subreddit—resulting in the immediate loss of an account I’d held for about 4 years, with 102k karma. I appealed, but I received no response—not even a reason for my ban, nor any notification that I had been banned in the first place. I’ve filed appeals repeatedly over the past few months, but today, I’m finally giving up. Fuck Spez and his pathetic, whore of a family. When I submitted my appeals, there wasn’t even any indication that they had gone through; I was just left in total silence, unable to do a thing. I started using an existing alt account for basic tasks, but today, that account was banned too—all because I recommended the non-profit, open-source "VPN Gate" project to someone who was complaining about the mandatory KYC (age verification) requirements being imposed in my country. The only reason I was still using Reddit was out of habit, and I’ve decided it’s time to change some of my habits. Ultimately, this is the inevitable fate of every centralized corporation—without exception. There’s no guarantee that some complete moron won’t end up in charge of any of them. I wish more people realized this. If four years of my effort are being sold off to AI data companies, and everything can be permanently wiped out overnight without a word of warning, then that is, quite simply, data theft. Once again, fuck you, Spez—you absolute piece of shit. If you had even an ounce of courage or integrity, you wouldn’t have imposed those damn API restrictions in 2023 and ruined Reddit. I truly regret the four years I spent here, but it’s better to cut my losses now. Goodbye, you son of a bitch Spez, and your puppet, Reddit...

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[–] 1 point 4 days ago

Everbody left Reddit in 2023 ,its bots only now

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  • [–] 36 points 1 week ago (28 children)

    Apart from habits, what were the sub-reddits that kept you there, and stopped from transitioning completely before? We can start making similar content and bring more people here.

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  • [–] 40 points 1 week ago (8 children)

    I went cold turkey after the third party app debacle but I really missed the home assistant subreddit. There is a home assistant community but it’s nowhere near as active.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago

    I miss getting help with all sorts of stuff, home improvement and repair and how to stuff, brewing, growing stuff, and the like. Plus they have way better animal videos, to say nothing of all the other video content not found on lemmy.

    Can't be helped, reddit is unusable, politicians and rich dickheads are leaning on them to make moderation decisions and they are trhing to bend us over for them.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    Not OP, but there are a lot of niche subreddits where you simply can't get information anywhere else. I quit Reddit entirely after the APIocalypse, and I know around that time people started replicating the extensive network of Sports team subreddits in various places here. But, there are simply not enough people here to make that work.

    I have not logged in (other than to manipulate the crypto out of my Reddit Vault and sell it before it crashed) since then. There are precisely four subreddits I monitor via RSS because the info simply doesn't make it here. But Reddit has already announced their RSS access is going away. When it does, I guess I'll just have get that info somewhere else.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago

    I've been clean cold turkey from Reddit for over 3 years now since I made my Lemmy account but I still really miss active discussions about newly released games :(

    You can make a post in one of the gaming comms here and sometimes you'll get a couple folks, but it doesn't really catch on the same. I had a grand old time reading tons of build discussion and memes when Elden Ring came out, but since Nightreign came out I effectively haven't interacted with its community at all.

    I like Lemmy specifically because it is smaller and more close knit, usually. But it misses out on some of the bigger town-square types of discussion that reddit could enable because reddit had sixty five gorillion users, especially in the gaming space.

    I expect that whatever discussion of this type doesn't exist on reddit probably exists on Discord but that also sucks for a completely separate, but similar, set of reasons. I still use Discord, as of currently, but I hate interacting in big public servers and never do it, and it misses a lot of the thread-and-comment structure that I liked so much about Reddit. (Discord does technically support threads, but they work differently and nobody uses them properly anyway.)

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago

    I read reddit but no longer contribute in any way. Activity level is just way lower here, especially for niche interests. I've increased the amount of other websites I look at (here, hacker news, steam forums) overall

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Most of my habits stemmed from the fact that I found the general chaos of Mastodon overwhelming and too complex for daily use. For instance, while Reddit has its own straightforward website and app, Mastodon lacks a clear, simple interface—which made it seem overly complicated to me from the start. Consequently, I always found it much easier to quickly hop onto Reddit to post or leave a comment. Most importantly, the number of active users on Mastodon is, unfortunately, still far lower than on Reddit.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 week ago

    You're on the Lemmy version of the fediverse. Mastodon is like Twitter, whereas Lemmy and Piefed are like Reddit.

    • Change up how you see stuff: Hot, Scaled, Every 6 hours. Active is the least active ironically.
    • Remember, this is mostly not an angry factory like reddit, so you're going to go through withdrawal. I'm serious.
    • Upvote if you like it an post stuff that interests you.
    • Remember there are still trolls here. They brigade and fight with you for odd reasons. That should give you a heads up if that starts to happen.
    • Not every instance is great.
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    [–] 26 points 1 week ago (8 children)

    I love that it says "This account is banned" Then immediately "Jump back into explore communities" Lol

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  • [–] 20 points 1 week ago (7 children)

    "we don't want you to participate anymore but we still want you to look at ads"

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  • [–] 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    Whenever I see people getting banned from Reddit I always revel in the fact that I left on my own terms. I never go back there voluntarily since the API Epoch. Eat my shorts, Reddit.

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    [–] 20 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    I didn't get banned I just quit. It was clear that it was going start rotting and it has.

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    [–] 18 points 1 week ago* (4 children)

    Leaving Reddit is like leaving an abusive relationship (kinda: stick with me on this)

    1. Reddit makes the rules and tells you what you can and can't say
    2. Reddit won't allow you to speak about controversial topics that could be upsetting to it's advertisers (i.e. Israel)
    3. Reddit mods can ban you for no reason
    4. Appealing to "authorities" (Reddit, when mods go crazy) does absolutely nothing
    5. It hurts and is sad to leave
    6. It gets better once you leave
    7. You look back a while later and think, wow it is so much better now you've left.
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    [–] 16 points 1 week ago

    Some of us left years ago without being banned because it was the right thing to do.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 week ago* (2 children)

    I posted this picture, it got taken down by the mods. I was just pointing out that people are being wow'd by the "flying" car but shouldn't forget the man behind it.

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    [–] 15 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Left reddit after the API fiasco. You will be fine, anyway reddit is in a very rapid decline.

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    [–] 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    Oh wow strong move, getting banned and calling it "I stopped using it" haha get real people. Either delete your accounts or maybe brag about something else

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    [–] 13 points 1 week ago

    I banned Reddit a few years ago. They broke my policy so they had to go.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    What was the likely innocuous comment that caught you a ban? I got IP banned for asking when they're going to launch Marjorie Taylor Greene into the sun. Apparently that was "promoting violence".

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    [–] 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Today I stopped using Bluesky because they suspended my account for suspicious activity. I'm sure it's because I use a VPN to bypass age verification. Oh well. Mastodon and Lemmy it is.

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    [–] 10 points 1 week ago*

    Similar thing happened to me. It was a near 20 year old account. Somehow it got hacked and banned. for my history I felt a sense of loss because I realized I wanted to be able to look back and see my old posts and comments. I appealed with no answer, it's like appealing into the void.

    I still had the addiction to seeing content and reading comments, seeing something always new. But I slowly started coming around to fediverse. Not all at once, I created a new reddit account just to see the content. It pissed me off they gated the content to people logged in, pissed me off they keep trying to push you to use the app, but I eventually gave in because of my content addiction to seeing that new dopamine drip feed.

    The final straw was when I started noticing a more hostile commenting environment. I would comment something innocuous, but then I would get people arguing with me on fairly un controversial comments. I would notice they would be accounts with private histories less than a year old. Some would have only fans- like ads in their profile.

    I also noticed a vast uptick in rightwing trolling and right leaning comments. These accounts all seemed suspect. Reddit had always been a left wing space. I really think a lot of the money being funneled into these midterms is being used for troll farms and bot farms to astroturf narratives on social media platforms. That was the last straw. I was arguing with people who were probably bots on reddit, giving reddit the engagement they want and I had enough.

    It really is an addiction, I had to cut it off but I still try to pull up reddit sometimes when i'm bored. But I think fediverse is really going to be the future and we have to keep getting people to gradually come here.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago

    Did you say something mean about fElon?

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    [–] 9 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Alternatively reddit is done using you lol. Welcome to lemmy!

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    [–] 9 points 1 week ago

    it took you this long?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago

    Ok. Try to not throw a huge wall of text please. I hate reddit too, but this is super boring.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I’m in for making DIY Luigi prayer Candles and posting the instructions on witches vs patriarchy. Instant shadow ban years old account high karma no further correspondence from Reddit

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    Same bruh. Reddit’s decline is real. In Indian feeds, I only see people posting reels from Insta, thirst trap LLM slop in fashion subReddits or sexually deprived men fantasising about content creators and bollywood actresses in celeb subReddits.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    You can still go into your account and nuke all your posts and comments

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    [–] 7 points 1 week ago*

    I've been getting this for a few weeks now, no way I'm making another account. Obviously loading the home page like 3 times per day is bot behaviour!

    Side note - If you save a multi reddit, it skips verification and autoloads old reddit. However if you try to load any comments it will block you.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago

    They just got rid of r/all won't work on mobile. Legit no reason for me to go there now. I would at least get some sort of news there

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago

    If you haven't been banned from reddit yet, you're probably a bot. They don't want humans to use their site.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

    Being banned from Reddit is a compliment these days. That was the site that used to host thedonald, fatpeople and even pedo communities (and femaledatingstrstegy).

    I deleted my old account (14 years I think it was), created a new one a few months later, got banned within a few weeks for being a bigot or whatever.

    Which was weird, because a lot of my posts were literally defending trans people, but, there were quite a few arguing with the gun community (so, I'm guessing someone felt insecure they might lose their guns and reported me for bullshit).

    It's not even a good place to visit anymore. All the local communities have been overrun by Gun, drug and companies and right wing lobbyists it feels like.

    It basically became the equivalent of facebook, but they actually ban you if you disagree with their opinion. Lemmy is rapidly getting better

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    [–] 6 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I got permanently suspended for unauthorized activity but I've only ever browsed and commented.

    And no one stole my 30 random character password with zero cross site duplication, either.

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    [–] 6 points 1 week ago

    I have always wondered if some griefer could find an exploit that leveraged the ban hammer… and used a script that just banned everyone.

    Like, literally everyone. All at once. Bots. Humans. Mods. Admins. No distinction. If you log in using the front door, the account is banned.

    I’m not much for chaos, but abrupt chaos at a deserving target would be enjoyable to rubberneck at.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago

    Congratulations leaving that trash fire. I went back a couple times out of curiosity and man did I regret it. It's way worse than it was in 2019 which was my peak reddit usage time.

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