just asking what is a good one

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[–] 28 points 5 days ago (9 children)
  • [–] [S] 4 points 5 days ago (8 children)

    but what good client that isnt designed for just businesses

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  • [–] 11 points 5 days ago (3 children)

    Personally I like Sable, it feels closer to Discord, has call support, and "just works"

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago

    I think the clients are all better lately. For Android I prefer Schildi Chat Next. For most everything else we use my self hosted Cinny web app. My only iPhone user likes elementX. Fluffy Chat is solid for messaging only, but I did not like that it can't do the voice and video calls. They may have added that by now, I'm not an expert.

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  • [–] 14 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    For one to one chats and the occasional group chat? XMPP is pretty awesome and has lots of good clients (Conversations on Android, Monal on iDevices, Dino, Gajim, etc. on Linux)

    If you want something closer to Discord and host public communities or very large chatrooms, Matrix is very good. You can self-host it with Continuwuity, and there are lots of clients too (Cinny, FluffyChat, Element, Fractal, NeoChat, etc.)

    If you just need voice chat, Mumble is simple and works well.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 days ago

    Fluxer (more like discord) or Matrix

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  • [–] 15 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    Matrix, and I recommend selfhosting Continuwuity as it is lightweight and easy to spin up. Your other option could be XMPP with Snikket or proper Prosody.

    Though do you have any particular features you wanna bring over from Facebook Messenger?

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    You must be the first person I’ve heard that actually selfhosts a delta chat server

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  • [–] 5 points 4 days ago (4 children)

    Because it hasn't been mentioned:

    IRC

    Sometime also mentioned SimpleX, which I'm looking into myself, but have no experience currently.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

    I love IRC but it's absolutely not usabale for non-tech people

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  • [–] 0 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    There is quite a bit of friction in the setup. After that, it's smooth.

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    Matrix and element clients

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  • [–] 5 points 5 days ago

    Are you asking just for general self-hosted messengers? Why did you mention Facebook specifically?

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  • [–] 6 points 5 days ago

    I tried a bunch. Right now I'm running Snikket (xmpp) and it's been very reliable.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

    Pidgin, maybe. I like it.

    Edit: Oops, I might have misread/misunderstood what you were asking. If you're asking about server software, I'd suggest XMPP :)

    Though I know Matrix is very popular (as shown by people others suggesting it)

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