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Original question by @RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone

a lot of people here in the united states find it attractive to have a foreign accent (although depending on what it is they could hate it too). what about your country?

does it depend? what accents don't they like if it depends?

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[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

Learning our language is admirable, especially because of a loud minority who never did despite living here for decades.

While some accents are more easy to tell apart and imitate (Georgian comes to mind) nobody will react negatively to hearing it.

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Anyone judging anyone else making the effort to speak their language can fuck off. It takes a lot of time and effort to learn a language let alone embed yourself into another culture .

[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

agreed, my fiancee got made fun of once because she said something wrong in a language i kind of speak, portuguese. she tried her best, though. :(

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My wife experienced this too despite speaking 3 languages and is currently learning her forth. We live in an age of ignorance unfortunately. Eu também falo e não é uma língua fácil de aprender.

[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

eu concordo, não falo fluentemente mas meu pai foi pro brasil uma vez. a lingua portuguesa é maravilhosa!!!

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Você fala muito bem, eu também não sou nativo, aprendi por causa dela. Ela é brasileira e eu também adoro o país. Me sinto em casa lá.

[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

você aprendeu há quanto tempo? pensei que era nativo, cê fala muito bem também! pretendo me mudar pra espanha ou portugal. vou ter um sotaque brasileiro mas pelo menos vou falar o idioma :)

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Obrigado, Acho que já faz seis anos que comecei a falar português, mas o que me ajudou muito foi que eu já estava aprendendo espanhol antes de conhecer minha esposa, e ela também fala espanhol, então começamos em espanhol e decidi deixar o espanhol de lado e aprender português antes da minha primeira viagem ao Brasil. Por um tempo, falei portunhol, mas sobrevivi, rs, e hoje falo regularmente em casa e com os amigos. Prefiro o português brasileiro, acho que é mais fácil de entender do que o português de Portugal. Boa sorte com seus planos!

[–] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

concordo completamente com você. mesmo se me mudar pro portugal, vou falar com um sotaque americano/peruano-brasileiro. entendo quase tudo do que vejo e aprendo mais diariamente e as vezes, meu cérebro não percebe quando alguém fala português e pensa que era em inglês ou algo assim. muito obrigado, cara!

[–] Libb@piefed.social 1 points 15 hours ago

I don't think any country has 'a view' on the way to speak their language. I mean, would there be a law, some rules and sanctions against accents?

People may have their own opinion on the matter but that opinion will vary widely from one person to the other.

My opinion, which was already mentioned in another comment, is that anyone making fun on someone speaking a foreign language can (and should) go funk themselves.

We should welcome those kind of efforts instead of mocking them, and we should also be happy to be encouraged to speak more foreign languages ourselves. I say that as I a French that's poorly speaking a few languages and would love to speak a lot more.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Depends on the accent and what bigoted stances the person judging holds.

Example: in the US, a French accent would be almost universally accepted, maybe considered being attractive, and indicative of somebody of “culture.“

An accent from central or South America? Lucky if the person is neutral towards it.

People also shit on Chinese and Indian accents here too. Mocked a lot.

[–] stinerman@midwest.social 5 points 1 day ago

Came here to say this. Western European accents are fun, quirky things. Accents from what our President would call "shithole countries" do not get the same respect.

[–] matcha_addict@lemy.lol 7 points 1 day ago

Typically Arabs would be very impressed to see you even try to speak Arabic. I have never seen someone make fun of a foreigner for their accent. It's also quite rare for a foreigner to speak without accent.

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I'm guessing ICE likes it, it probably makes their job easier.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 21 hours ago

Fun Fact: Did you know that like 30% of ICE agents are Hispanic/Latino Americans? 🙃

Family reunions must be awkward when your buddies deported your aunt/uncle/grandparent

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 23 hours ago

If the person in question doesn't hate foreigners in general, an accent is mostly adored. Plus, the US is so big, you can have a completely different accent while not being a foreigner. New Yorkers sound way different from Californians. Someone from Arizona is gonna sound a lot different than someone from Minnesota. Etc.

[–] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't see many foreign people speaking my language at all. Other than the fact that when they do it they're usually either advanced speakers or not at all. I also tend to switch to their language automatically.

[–] MicrowavedTea@infosec.pub 9 points 1 day ago

I also tend to switch to their language automatically

Sad language learner sounds

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

I always love the russian accent for some reason. Like they sound to.. idk how to describe... like very authoritative, it can sound intimidating, but when spoken by someone that is resisting government oppression kinda like bring you hope. Like I hear a Russian accent of English and I immediately think of like revolution, like the revolution against the Tsar, or like the Alexey Navalney type of people.

When ever I hear Chinese, Korean, or Japanese accents, I think of like intellectuals, scientists. And specifically in case of Chinese (both Cantonese and Mandarin) accents, I think of the fight for democracy in Hong Kong, the resistance against the CCP's encroching upon ROC/Taiwan, and those doctors who tried to warn people of covid, and the dissidents who fled or have been exiled.

The average American English accent sounds kinda boring, no offense. Even the British accept, which is slightly better than the American version, still sounds boring AF.